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If there is a reason,,besides,,time and scheduling,,,it is because he thinks thats were its gonna kick off in the future.

Historicaly kings and politicians vie for friends,,when they know they are gonna have a proper ruck with another country.




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I am most sorry to disagree so strongly.
I realise your Swiss and maybe your command of the English language is not that good.

Please read a 1970 edition of the Oxford dictionary,,(no other will do as it is the bible of our language) and read carefully what it say's about "Racism".

Your view,,"one side denying the other the right to live",,,is quite another matter.

Understand this about your words,,,these words are banded about everywhere and have been for 25 years ,,the words that have been carefully crafted by politicians and the politicians right arm,,the MEDIA to fool us all,,,that it is our fault,,,we the people,,we are the barbarians,,the haters,,the ignorant.

Look at the hater's,,,have you actually met,,(come into personal contact with) more than 4 people,,in your life,,that you know,,HATE,,,LOATHE,,DISPISE,,others because of skin colour or where they come from.

If everyone is to believe your words,,,"one side denying the other ,,THE RIGHT To LIVE".
Then we must look at,,,America vs Vietnam,,,America & Britain vs Iraq.
China vs Tibet,,Russia vs Chetchnia,,the list is endless.
But then,,,what do you say?,,what words do use?,,when civil unrest erupts,,,the best example,,Korea vs Korea.
What is the difference between that war,,hot or cold,,and Vietnam...NONE is the unfortunate answer.
What you now have to define from all of that history,,,and all of that conflict,,,is this..
WERE THESE WARS/CONFLICTS,, "RACISIST" BY DEFINITION?,,,"THAT THEY WERE DENIED THE RIGHT TO LIVE,,OR LIVE HOW THEY WANTED TO."

Tricky stuff is'nt it?
Its tricky,,,because it has become muddled by the "political correct brigade",,who as usual have'nt the brains to see what their actions can cause further along in time AND WE the people desperatly try to understand their bullshit,,we try to unravel it,,,as if it were alchemy.

Look at these posts,,,all of them,,how can so much,,such variety,,come from one simple,,and simply defined word,,,unless it has been made to be more than what it is....(take a while to work out,,took me 15 years.)

Racism,,is a word that is banded about to remind us all,,,constantly,,that it exists,That it is real,,,and it won't go away,,so when the day comes,,it can be used,,for us,,or more probaly,,against us,,,like giving a child a load machine gun.
(See the future for more details.)




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Racism?
The years I have tramped this planet,,I have met about three people that were truly racist...they hated coloured people for no other reason than for sake of hate and frankly,,they were bad people anyway.

Few people,,(remember,,I'm English),,actually hate,,dislike,,loathe another because of the colour of their skin.

What I found was,,people would verbally attack another race,,,"Pakistani's" and "Indians" for example,,because the politicians allowed 100,000's of them in,,,our rights were immeadiatly reduced,,our NHS ran out of money so we could'nt get proper health care,,nor proper benifits,,,our housing,,which was our rite by default,,because we had paid for it,,was given away by the 1000,'s ,,leaving the Brits wondering how to find a home.

The polticians swung the whole thing around and created,,"RACISM",,a totally ficticious meaning was attached to a word that had a huge amount of sociological weight.

To a point,,were if a Brit say's,,,"how the *uck,,do they get all the benifits,,the housing,,the priority benifits,,,because the govenment need to placate the immigrant,,the poor Brit,,is labeled a racist,,,this is a well ugly word,,,so everyone shuts up and the government get their way..simple really.


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WOW,,,what the *uck is going on here.
You can't remind the American public of the virtual genocide of the "Indians Nations".
You cannot and must not mention the poverty they are kept in,,by way of ridiculous land rights.
For heaven sakes man,,,what are you going to do next,,remind them all that they are still tring to steal the "Black Hills" back from the Indians which was a rite by treaty.
Maybe your gonna ask why,,when the blacks were screaming racist from the highest roof tops,,they kinda forgot about the "Prairie Niggers" in the North West and how come not one of them has ever resided in the senate.
How about reminding them,,that American Politicians,,,insisited that South Africa should be given back to the indiginous people of South Africa,,,whilst quietly forgetting their own.
You know man,,Cyprus is not far enough away to recieve a red, white and blue rocket,,,lollllllllllllll...so be carefull


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"You cannot have a civilised society if you subjugate your people

Chief Sitting Bull

The most intelligent words I have ever heard from a leader of people.

The Indian Nations offered us everything and we destroyed it.
We destroyed their values,,their homes and their wisom.
Even today the American whites continue to harras and steal from the Indians 132 years after the Little Big Horn.

No Indian has sat in congress or the senate,,(McKenzie was not proved to be of Indian decent)
Yet the American politicions talked about giving South Africa back to the indiginous population.

It is the one true shame of white and worse "black" America.
The blacks in their struggle for racial equality never included the Indian.

The Indian people are treated appallingly,,because they won't join the white mans "club" and be like them.
Their reservations are under funded,,There's little to no work and if a job comes up,,there's little chance of getting it,,because they are Indian.
The Indian people caused me sadness but strangely enough,,they do not inspire PITY,,it is the greatness of a proud people.


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Zelleronne..
Of all the people,,I'm surprised by that statement.
Yes,,somenights a board game.
Some summers evenings a walk in a wood.
Maybe you on the back of my old Harley as we ride through the country side with the wind in our faces and smelling the new cut hay.
Invite friends for a meal and a laugh one evening.
And when things are happy,,a person to rejoice with,,when things a re sad,,a person to lament with.
Maybe make passionate love love to forget the days troubles ,,not sit a bottle of wine trying to soak it out on our own.
Planning travels together,,,going places and sharing the moments,,sunshine and snow on a mountain,,a moon lit canal with a picnic.
We can't exchange these things with TV and the internet,,but we can dream about them...:)



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Lonelyness....MMMM.

Who's lonely here?,,who needs to be lonely?

If the world took away the virtual relationship machines,,,TV's,,Internet,,mobile phones,,,phones,,radios I think people then would have learn how to get along with each other properly and create proper codes of conduct beteen each other because true lonelyness,,being starved of other peoples companionship is not healthy or natural for us as humans.

We can watch TV and experience emoticions of tradgedy,,humour,,even love,,but that emoticion is not real for the watcher.
The internet is more interactive,,but every one is just a delete button away from another failed relationship.

People are'nt lonely today,,but a lot are starved of true human emoticional contact.



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Hey..lighten up...its a joke,,,bnd with a tea towel and fanbelt on his head.

Just joking because everyone thinks BND is behind something.

You outta know I would'nt take the piss out of you..we've known each other quite a while..and I've never taken a liberty with you.

give me a kiss and make up will yer..:)



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...........ALL YOU PEOPLE THAT THINK THIS IS POOLACK.......

................................YER WRONG.....................

.............ITS BND WITH A TEA TOWEL AND FAN BELT ON HIS HEAD........


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..............THE DOGS BOLLOCKS........

Love it



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I was a boy scout on camp in Essex.

I got completly rat faced on cider.
For that experience,, I could'nt touch the stuff until I was 46,,,I could'nt even smell it.

The last time I got badly drunk was 1974 in Istanbul on good wine.
I said after that never again and besides a couple of mistakes I have kept to that.
To this day I drink every week but I don't get pissed.
The other rule in my life is,,keep away from drunks completely,,everyone of them I have met has been a nightmare.



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That just about sums thing up in a nutshell.

Then there's John Lennons little line.
They hate you if your clever and despise a fool.

I have never been able to figure out why thats true either.


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Just when you thought you had heard it all about men..this wanker crops up.
Sometimes I despair.


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That is a most unkind thing to do.
I have never seen you this angry HH.

In case I'm not about tonight..mail me that outcome HH..please.

Here's a hug for the time being,,
(and for those that don't know,,I give out hugs too readily.)


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I have heard this from men before.
basically,,walk away,,yer ego is outta control.
If she really wanted you and was free to have you,,you would'nt be here writing posts because yer hands would be full.


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Exactly my point,,,and also,,,sometimes they bring it on to themselves.
That the denial bit.

As men,,a personal attack can be far greater,,than an attack against a woman,,,therefore the level of reciprication raises.


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You know,,women are so lucky here,,they can turn up in long trousers,,short trousers,,shorts,,short skirt,,long skirt,,mini skirt,,dress,,boobs showing,,half covered,,fully covered,,flat shoes,,high shoes,,or even boots..

If you or I, turned up in a cape,,shorts and hat,,you would be history.

Funny old world ain't it..lolll


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Top of list:
Fine wine,,,,(you know I ain't a snob,,,lolll)
Gin
Good Scotch
Burbon
Good Golden Rum
Irish Whiskey
Cheap Scotch
Dark Rum.

Hate,,,Dutch Gin and The National drink of Denmark,,something like ardvak...that is hideious to the extreme,,reminds me of aircraft fuel,,the smell.,,,ooooh and cheap Grappa,,thats not fit to clean yer teeth with.

TIP:.
Wake up in the morning with a mouth like a Turish Wrestlers Armpit.
Gargle with quality Vodka,,,(do not swallow it).
Leaves yer mouth germ free and fresh.


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Sorry about this Far Away,,,but there is now way I reckon this is right.

If you do not have the power to right the wrong done to you then yes,,I suppose a person must find a way of getting this terrible feeling from out and under their skin.
In otherwords,,your seeking revenge because of the ill done to you,,but cannot exact that revenge and its making you sick thinking about it.
Forgivness is the ability to forget
Yet some crimes are too henious to forget.,,that screws people up.

Having said that,,what do think the law was emplaced for.
Someone does a wrong and they are punished.

If we as a society let every nutter,,doing evil deeds to others,,off the hook this would cause anarchy.

By letting a person off the hook for doing something really bad to you and it is seen as bad by other people as well,,(thats important) then you are seen as weak and a target for bulling by not just the perpetrator but other nasty people as well.

Sometimes people have regret,,because they layed themselves open to a personal attack and chastise themselves for being so stupid.
Thats a different barrel of fish,,but equally valid to this arguement.

because all the people that have seriously tried to screw with my life have lived to regret it,,,other don't try.
This way I live in peace. I have no regrets,,no one is forgiven,,all have to pay.
Just like the law of the land.


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yep..will do Koni's..
Have a great day tomorrow..and a deep warm bath.
Goodnight and sleep tight.



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