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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
Don't think this has ever been a problem for my partners. Then again peeler bars are not really my thing.


MEN & STRIP CLUBS...yes or no??: click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
Each experiance bad or good has always had something for me to learn from. All have been worth while and would never take them back.


Would you rather have loved and lost...than never loved at all....: click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
If I have been dating the girl for a while...then none. Until I'm comfortabe the glove goes on.

I really hated condoms, but want the protection....also, makes big difference what you use for condoms. After several trials grin I would stick with Crown rubbers as they feel almost like bareback.

Do the test yourself...see the difference. rolling on the floor laughing


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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
I never changed my appearance but got back into being sporty...after 14 yrs it's funny how things just come back to you.

On the other hand my x got a tat. For her it signified change, a new chapter in her life. Change is good.


Starting Over: click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
I'm with the Prof... probably becuase I'm realist. It just makes sense to me.


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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
I don't think you got played... it's possible she just got cold feet and not ready for it all.

Sorry for your experiance. Sit back, relax...and when you least expect it...

All the best.


Same old excuse: click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
Love reds...and blondes...and brunettes...and...


What is it about Redheads that attracts men?: click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
your name


Easy Brain Teaser #163: click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
Ya...Gracie is fighting on the 27th against Hughes...again...dislike Hughes and would like Gracie to win. But Hughes will likley over power the 40 yr old Gracie. I'll be watching that one (not live unfortunately).


UFC....Team Punishment Or Team Shamrock?: click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
Yup...but he is in really good shape and has knockout power...still don't like him though. We'll see I guess.


UFC....Team Punishment Or Team Shamrock?: click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
ya...ok then


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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
I prefer middle of the road...I don't want to be making decisions all of the time, yet would never work out if my partner thought she was right all of the time either.

I've always thought of this as a partnership. Idealy, you want to make descisions that impact both of you positively and not let your ego get in the way.

There are many ways to deliver an opinion or a message...it is easier to accept things for me with people that can reason and have tact.


Gurlie girls or independent girls...what do u guys REALLY want!??!!: click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
I hated Tito and liked Shamrock...Now it's the other way around. Shamrock appears to be wussy now.

They both have some decent guys in their respective camps... I still want to see Tito fall.


UFC....Team Punishment Or Team Shamrock?: click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
Excellent ... glad to see a new person posting. Hope to get new ones out!

Have fun!


Breaking my shyness :): click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
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Maybe I shouldn't have used the suicide analogy. I thought about whether it was a good idea when I wrote it.


What I was tying to do was make light of the repeated (many times) "I'm Leaving" threads.
Yup...must be a full moon somewhere.


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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
I'm fairly new to this site too. I have been separated for over 3 yrs. It was hard at first...after being with the same person for 14 yrs, strange getting back out there.

I can't say I've felt alone...I've dated plenty since my separation (hope this doesn't sound like I go through girls like mad cause I don't). Of course, would prefer a partner that I connect with.

Not many local matches for me here. Just come for the forums but the same people seem to post all of the time. Funny posts for the most part and entertaining for sure. Hope to have new people post!!! Hint!!!

Things will happen in time... just haven't had that feeling yet.


Giving Up ...: click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
haha...or run...


What catches YOU first...looks or personality?: click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
Looks then personality...I find I look for body langauge in a conversation...facial expressions when you talk, the way she might smile, that kind of thing. Call me weird, but the way it is all combined makes me want to stay and chat.


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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
I suppose if you can tell that in your first meeting...that's pretty good.


Would you meet someone witout a pic?: click here to read the entire thread »

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The_One Calgary, Alberta Canada
It sounds like you need a support system that is at your level. To me, you seem like an extremely driven individual and carrying the weight of the world gets tiring. Some have mentioned the importance of having other things other than being 100% committed to work and sleep.

I'm only guessing as to what could solve your dilema...The only thing I can think of is my experiance with being a workaholic at one time in my life. Everything was pushed aside so that I could acheive "success". At that time success to me meant visability from work related achievements, financial gain, the way I dealt with pressure situations and the pressure to continue and do better at all of these all of the time.

I got an eye opening at a sales course in which the instructor asked many questions related to our personal life, not work performace. This was a 3 day course and 2 days had been based on personal issues. Funny how I couldn't contribute much as my life was based on work.

It's been a few years and the impact of the course remains imprinted in all things I do today. Some days are late work hrs and need the attention, but what I gained was the knowledge that I could create balance in my life. Life is not all work and means nothing if you can't enjoy friends, family, hobbies or whatever else turns your crank.

Whatever it is, hope you find that balance during your time off.

All the best!


I just took a leave of absence...now what?: click here to read the entire thread »

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