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If a block sleeps with a girl on their first date, then he is a jerk!

But if he has sex with the girl on the first date, is he an easy game?

(I’m making complete bullocks of myself, not the first time though…)





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The only serious flaw, now as before, is that you can’t know who’s IM-ing you until you accept the call.

The layout of the site looks somehow lifeless after the change, but it may depend upon the weather, and at the spring it would blossom up, who knows…



Sorry guys, try again....not good enough..: click here to read the entire thread »

Should I have said: you took it and still gnawing?




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Some meaning was supposed to be there, and if you would try and ignore the word within the squared braces, you may discover it.

And by the way, why do you think that word “” means “fuck”? As I see it, you can put any word in its place. Use some fantasy, don’t limit ourselves to only one word, don’t get stuck with a form, there can be contains as well.

I wrote the text first, then I put “” practically at random. And you gulped the bait.



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No, it doesn't make sense in any language.

I just had one drink too many


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… I’ve composed a letter to people (of the opposite sex) who viewed me, or rated my photo rather high…

And as I never treat people as items on a conveyer (I think when you treat people as an item from a conveyer, the only thing you’ll get back it’s an item from a conveyer, and it is not what I am looking for) I tried hard and composed a letter with personal issues. But I’ve never sent any of them.

The question is: what’s wrong with me?
The second question is: is there any one with the same problem?
The third question is: should I do anything about it, or leave it at its fate?



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I discard the motion.

You start a thread, and then the participants discuss anything, everything, safe for the topic mentioned in the start. Of course, it’s their right to kill the thread, and then the thread initiator has a right to leave the thread at its fate, especially when it is killed.




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Well… yes, I doubt than too much relationship analyzing would do it any good.

But it would help if the two mean the same when they talk about “honesty, trust, loyalty…” (Not to mention compassion… What kind of a relationship may it be without compassion? It just has to be there…)

So at the end of the day, it comes to a very easy thing – the ability to be reliable without babbling about it.



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Don’t know whether my thoughts would be interesting… Perhaps people keep stressing this subject, because they think that what’s expected of them. But I consider listing such qualities as boring, and actually needless.

No serious long-term relationship would work if there are no “trust, loyalty, compassion, honesty etc.” plus many other qualities as well that make two people to a couple.

From my point of view, the more you talk about honesty, trust, loyalty etc. in general, the less you know what it would look like in a particular case. Now and then I ask for explanation of these qualitative (i.e. subjective) conceptions (just to ensure myself that we are discussing the same notions). And know what? No luck so far…



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I’ve read somewhere that a man has got 30 seconds to make an impression on a woman.

Now you’ve got a mail that more reminds a shopping list, than an attempt to make an acquaintance:

“Loving, caring, romantic, honest, open-minded, genuine, easy-going, intelligent, understanding, affectionate, friendly, good-sense-of-humour…”

The irony is that all qualities listed above may be true to a certain extent, but even if you manage to read it to the end, the only impression it makes: boring…

… And your 30 seconds are consumed



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People with severe illness/disability have to struggle against their state of health AND the judgmental environment. And if they nevertheless keep their mood up, don’t surrender, are looking for a date, for a partner, for some joy, that signifies that they have a lot of courage.

And I find brave men attractive.

Now, there are people who left their partner/spouse, or their child, because the partner/spouse (child) became ill/disable.

Would you date these people?



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I agree with the “hunter” issues. Our behavior is conditioned by hormones to some degree.

And I think there is an issue of different priorities. Perhaps fewer women feel lonely when they have children/grandchildren/friends… and it isn’t the same for men




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Once I was waiting for a bus, and that bus-stop hadn’t any tent, it began raining. A young man approached me and asked if I would mind him holding his umbrella over me. I wouldn’t. But the thing was he had no umbrella. So he took of his jacket and held it over my head. The rain got heavier, and I ended up practically hugging a complete stranger until the bus came…

He was my first love

I think people wouldn’t mind you approach them, but you can’t come with “bare” hands. You have to offer them something, better if it’s something they need at the moment, like an umbrella even if it doesn’t exist.





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A man from Caucasus speaking Russian… mm-ummmm

Beyond all competition…





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***** Bitter Man With A Peg Leg And Propensity For Sheep *****



Where is this treasure?!!

I’m quite “sheepish”...





No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements: click here to read the entire thread »

A periscope!




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Our “baggage” has made us to what we are now. How can there be “no baggage”?

And I agree, it’s a cliché, one of many that people use here and else where, without explaining what they mean.

I would like to meet a man with some baggage, as few books he has read, few journeys he has made… one and another failure he has experienced and then decided not to repeat…



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4. IF MAN EVOLVED FROM MONKEYS AND APES, WHY DO WE STILL HAVE MONKEYS AND APES?



Monkeys and apes still remain because they are wise.

The rest that developed into man, now are known as tax payers and TV-watchers.


PS Actually mankeys and apes have us



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