kindheart74: Dear friends,
I promised you to tell how it went my dating with that guy.
So we met at the park gate, he was waiting for me there. He recognized me quickly but I couldn’t recognize him till he call me saying my name because he was handsome than his CS picture, a tall, fair guy.
It was evening; nature was very beautiful, tiny rain drops were falling. So we entered in to the park and found a bench in a beautiful place covered by trees. Then we started to chat, sitting on the bench and he wanted to touch my hands first, and then wanted to hug me, and then kiss me. I didn’t have any objection. I don’t know why, but I felt that we are not matched though we had physical attraction to each other.
While he was kissing me a funny thing happened, a security guard came and asked us to leave the park saying couples are allowed to be there till 2.30pm only and now it was the time for children. We left that bench but started to play hide and seek game with security guards of the park . When we saw the same guard coming to us again we left the park.
Then we go to see a near by lake. It was very beautiful; there was small temple middle in the lake.We walk here and there holding our hands. But at that place also same thing happened. Because of his mad kissing habit we were asked to leave that place too.
I found that he is a nature lover; he described every simple thing we saw around us, about squirrels running behind each other on trees, sleeping bats hanging on trees, swimming swans in the lake, flying cranes …………… yes I think I started to love him.
But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.
Sorry, but honey, if he had have said YES there and then,
I would have smelt a rat.
He'd either be after a quicky,
my cash,
or be a yes-man
He said that he want some time to decide it. Him asking for time,
speaks more FOR him,
than against him.
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