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First off to start ...today is my day back on the site and I do check out the comments on here. I am very proud of the women who stood up and took a stand. I am a Plus Size woman and loving it myself. I use to where the size 12's and now I am a 24 and found men love it. My natural breast are the size that everyone is trying to buy (DDD) and the "apple bottom" butt that girls are trying to padd their jeans to get I GOT THAT NATURALLY.

As for the people that don't know how to answer a question without being insulting I would just have to say the insult is on them because it shows how shallow and unknowledgeable they are. As mentioned in one of the postings some people have medical conditions and you dont know someones story unless you ask. As someone else stated "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" which means there is someone for everyone.

I did this posting to find out the difference between how women respond compared to men. The women who are not "Healthy" said the worst things ever. Where as, the men said things like "its about personality" "there is a limit" and so forth ...they werent as cruel as some of the women on here.

Even though it is a preference its like avocado you think it is nasty just by its looks but baby when you get to cooking it you do more than just like it you "love it"!

So my thought about all of this is that you may think someone that is "fat" is nasty and unhealthy well the same could be said about if you look too "pasty" we may think you are severly ill. Lol...which leads to a whole new thread.


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Hello NM where is everyone???


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Hey there I live in the ABQ. I moved here over a year ago and it has been hard trying to meet people down here. So tell me where the hot spots are for adults.


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Ship I can always depend on you for a good answer...thanks babe!


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That is a good question that I answered long time ago. When I am in a relationship I call my SO "MY GUY or MY MAN" because you get what you call out and I am tired of boys I want a real MAN in my life.


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I don't know if this has been a topic of discussion yet but if so sorry for the duplicate postings; I haven't had a chance to read all the postings.

Anyway, How many men love big beautiful women? How many women love big beautiful men (not talking about the third arm attachment size)?
The Curvy woman has not gotten much recognition as "We" should...it's like we are the hidden secret. So I want to know how many people are into Big and Beautiful?


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Bend over bad boy!!!


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I dont mean to make you feel lonely...hell so am I...but I have found that most men that I have dated havent been pampered and they run..like I scare them to death or something. So its just a realization that we need to raise our standards ...maybe the divorce rate will go down!


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See you just need a hugg!!! and maybe your butt squeezed in the process that is for free


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Well it is easier to say No if you have never been confronted with it. I have been the one who said "how could anyone do that" "once a cheat always a cheat" and so forth. Until, I met this guy who said upfront he was married, unhappy, not looking for a relationship, not looking for anything at all but to be with a black woman once before he dies. So I said hell sounds like a good one night stand no attachments nothing....UNTIL ...after the third one night stand and chatting and talking and we both fell in love. Oh yeah, we have tried breaking up and saying stuff like "this is useless" "this isn't fair" so o and so forth but we are dealing with it.

If I had known it was going to turn to this...even though he is everything I want in a man...I would not have entertained him nor would he. Now we are here we are both trying to figure out what to do...i dont ask him for ANYTHING but he definitely suggests.

Lastly, I know 3 couples who have been in the same situation 2 of which are happily married. You never know what may come of it but it is not my first suggestion. So if it is meant it will be no matter what and you wont even have to force it...if not hey aren't we on this sight for a reason


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You mean to tell me you wouldnt want a woman giving you a full body massage with some hot oil and some nice music in the background and offer up some whipp cream and strawberries???


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Oh one more...in the online dating world...when his picture online is from 5 years ago and he doesn't even look like that any more..he looks worse....yeah DEFINITE turn off!


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When they smell like a 12 pack of beer, a carton of cigarettes and they tell you how good they are in bed. Whatever!!!


When they talk about themselves throughout the whole conversation and I have to stop and ask if they want to know anything about me.


When I am asked to pitch in on the bill instead of me offering.

....the list goes on


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Heck yeah! Men should be pampered as well as the woman.


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Yes most definitely! Now that I am single I have to find ways to make feel like a woman so I get manicures, pedicures, massages and my hair done. Its a must!


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funny ok..it's all about semantics...how about treated in such a way you felt you were recieving special attention?


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I like to do the pampering in my relationships like massages, bubble baths, love games, gifts, nice music and dancing then whatever else he wants. So share when was the last time you were pampered and what happen?


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