pubwrite08: Exactly, I lose weight at the rate of 9 pds every 3 months no more no less. Why because of insulin, without it I die. I do not know if this trend will continue. My biggest fear, is being too skinny, or looking skeletal. Because that is not a hot look either, at least not to me.
We all different. Me personally I will date a big man. After all I was a bigger woman, and nobody was ever mean to me, at least not to my face.
Don't! If you feel comfortable in you body, stay as you are! There are many guys (like me!

) who love well build woman. I don't do skinny and bony ! If you loose a lot of weight, it looks much worth as your skin will not retract and it will hang floppy all over your body. And most women lose first of all fat tissues at their breasts, and how that will look you might imagine!
Stop listening to those who are looking for "model" type girls - they don't have a own opinion, because it is given to them from the media!
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