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Hi,
You sound like your selection of men is dewindling. That is right statisticly. Out of all people in the U.S. 60% of them die before the age of 65. This is all deaths from all causes. Of those deaths the majority are men do to men are more likely to take chances thrill seeking, like drag racing a buddy down a side street. so as you get older you have a smaller selection of men, men become "in demand" and try to make up for????? Experimentation they never could do before etc.
As far as the games, there are those that are malious and those that have been emotionally scared so badly they protect themselves with what seems to be a game but is an automatic defence against being hurt again.
Dale


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The fact is everyone has their own bottom. Butt it is true. Sorry for the pun, But drug and alcohol counselers teach this. It is a method of denial: The user denies the addiction for he still owns his home and the addict is on the street. Once he looses his house the denial keeps pace and he thinks the addict is the one laying in the gutter and not the guy on the street. One person may find being on the street to be bottom and turn his life around where another may not find his bottom untill he is in the gutter and yet another may slam on his brakes before loosing the house or anywhere inbetween. If it pertains to EXs I can not be sure but I do know that you would not have to look far to find someone worse off than you. dale


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and a great big hug from me to you. Feel better Darl'in


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Is it the feeling of being vulnerable after giving yourself to a man that makes you push him away? Dale


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r u ok


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yes,..yyesss


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this is something I wrote a while back it is not directed at anyone
I know all to well how some people will dump on an innocent person to feel better about themselves. For they were dumped on and feel that gives them the right to dump and hurt others.. This feeling of wellness is short lived and like a junkie they have to do it again and again.
What I can not understand is how a person can feel good about causing another pain. And in the first place a person that has done NOTHING to them. These people do not realize they are hurting themselves, in the long term, far more than anyone else. The missed chances at having a good life, one that is rewarding and fulfilling are lost. Egos, paranoia , the idea that “you better stick it to him/her before she/he sticks it to you” I find to be a sad reality when you think of the accomplishments that could have been made with 2 people and 1 positive attitude.
All anyone needs to do is let it go, and see the next possible mate with fresh unjaded/unbias eyes.


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I agree with Buffy78, I am tired of the lonliness of being a single man. Buffy, at least you have your kids. Do not underestimate their value and hold them dear. I say that because I do not have family of any kind. So when I am alone I realy am. Mates will come and go but your kids are forever but, they cannot substitute for a man in your life. So does anyone get to have their cake and eat it too?
Forever we shall want what we do not have but, can we be happy/satisfied with what we do have? Walls


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You hit the nail square on the head.


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I would not trade a thing. If I did I would no longer be me. I love myself and work at being a better person everyday. Physical aspects are secondary in the long run to happiness. WALLS


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to me alone time says it is not working out as things are. the person needing the alone time might be trying to sort out feelings for 2 people. most are going to go with the person they know more of, less risk, Walls


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I consider myself to be "a nice guy" and I will say so to someone I just met. I do have consideration for others whether I know them or not. If someone were to take advantage of my good nature I would act in kind two fold.
There are plenty of "not so honest" people out there on the web, men and women alike. They might have their own plans or remain open for something better to come along. People tend to forget that the "grass will forever be greener on the other side of the fence". Meaning , be happy with what you have and/or be happy for those who have found their match and don't meddle with them.
My advise to cutensassy, take a long look at yourself, walk a mile in the other person's shoes, try to be objective and that is hard to do for anyone. Walls


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I get to go to work starting at 11pm


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