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I'm on it, I got now--
first off a "real" man talks the talk then walks the walk. he stands behind his words...
if he says he's a good communacator, he needs to have opinions and not sit there with a blank look.
if he says he can carry a deep conversations, then he should beable to talk beyond phyiscal appearances.
if he says he has a strong sex drive, then he better put out now and then.
if he says hes honest and truthworthy, dont lie and make others sort out the truth.
if he says he accepts ppl as they are, then dont spend every minute trying to change them.
Thats all i have right now, i just think a real man or woman should be who they say they are...

your turn...

WOMEN'S ADS;

40-ish...................... 49
Adventurer....... Slept with all your friends.
Athletic.................... No tits.
Average looking....... Has a face like a basset hound
Beautiful................. Pathological liar
Contagious Smile....... Does a lot of Ecstasy
Educated.......... Banged her Political Science professor
Emotionally Secure.......... Medicated
Feminist.................... Fat ballbuster
Free spirit................. Junkie
Friendship first........ Trying to live down reputation as a slut
Fun......................... Annoying
Gentle...................... Comatose
Good Listener...............Borderline Autistic
New-Age..................... All body hair, all the time
Old-fashioned.......... Lightsout, missionary position only, no BJs
Open-minded............ Desperately seeking
Outgoing............... Loud and Embarrassing
Passionate.................. Sloppy drunk
Poet................ Depressive Schizophrenic
Redhead..................... Bad dye-job
Romantic........ Looks better by candle light
Social...................... Has been passed around.
Wants Soulmate.............. Stalker
Widow.......... Drove first husband to shoot himself
Young at heart.............. Old bat

MEN'S ADS;

40-ish................ 52 and looking for 25-yr-old
Athletic.............. Watches a lot of NASCAR
Average looking....... Unusual hair growth on ears, nose, & back
Educated.............. Will patronize the shit out of you
Free Spirit........... Banging your sister
Friendship first...... As long as friendship involves nookie
Fun................... Good with a remote and a six pack
Good looking.......... Arrogant
Very good looking..... Dumb as a board
Honest................ Pathological Liar
Huggable.............. Overweight, more body hair than a bear
Mature................ Older than your father
Open-minded........... Wants to sleep with your roommate but she's not interested
Physically fit........ Does a lot of 12-ounce curls
Poet.................. Wrote ex-girlfriend's # on a bathroom stall
Sensitive............. Cries at chick flicks
Very sensitive........ Gay
Spiritual............. Got laid in a cemetery once
Stable................ Arrested for stalking, but not convicted
Thoughtful............ Says "Excuse me" when he farts.


Oh c'ommon lighten up it is in good spirit.

Would've Should've Could've if.......I raised 3 smart and wonderful kids...probably won't accomplish anything else

And don´t tell me you´re not buying anything, BS!

I´m tuning my car a bit and might buy myself a trip to Isla de Margarita over New Year, haven´t decided yet.

And youuuu?

Hey rivame

I know what you mean.. sometimes the things we suffer in life can be quite overwhelming.. what makes it worse is when there is nobody to turn to... you find out fast just who your real friends are when you are down and out.. Such was the case with me about 7 months ago.. The most horrible time in my life.. never want to go through anything like that again..

If there was such a thing as hell on earth.. it was definitely that way for me.. all of the people that I believed were my friends just ran out on me.. and everything I was going through I had to deal with alone.. I tell you I really didn't think I was going to make it.. but I did.. by the grace of God..

My belief as far as friends go is this...

A true friend comes in when the whole world has gone out..

Unfortunately for me the so called friends I thought were true, weren't true after all..

Yes it is true we do need to tell the 14% to sit down and just shut up.....
I am all for it for sure....It is about time we all took a stand and started sticking up for God for a change.... if we have to be subject to all of those other opinions that don't believe in God and we are subjuect to them and their opinions then we have a right to voice ours as well and as a matter of fact I am highly offended by people who are offended by my belief in God and in the mention of God himself. It's about time everyone who claims to love God took a stand.....for sure

It's been a night of painkillers and Scotch, so before I start pontificating on what's wrong with this world, I will reign myself in and just say that I love you all. (To be honest, some piss me off) But so few. You are my lifeline. I express, you respond. I learn from you. I am enriched by you. I do believe in a cyber family. 10 years ago, this did not exist. Now I can go to bed alone, yet feel a certain comfort. Thank you.

Did I open a can of worms here?

I think the real problem he was experience is it was starting to get nasty.

We don't need to be putting others down here for stating their opinion, or asking a question.

Calling someone less of a man because he's trying to understand something, or learn something does not make for good etiquette.

Asking WHY something seems like---, is NOT WHINING/CRYING either.
It was a QUESTION. A way to OPEN COMMUNICATION lines with other people who just MIGHT be feeling the same way.

Sometimes people just need to vent their problems to help them feel better. Does this make them less of a person for doing this?

No, it is sharing feelings, which is what being HUMAN is all about.

We're here to CONNECT, not throw mud!

(the 'and I thought he was leaving' comment was TOTALLY unnecessary!)

I'm new in this and would love to meet new people

hi i just joined this site.. im not doing so well i have been dating this guy for 4 years he is 13 years older than me and now he want to move on with his life im heart broken we did everything together and i dont no how to say good bye// i dont want to say goodbye to the man i love he loves me but we cant be together he is married i no its horrible but we fell in love 4 years later and hes having a hard time saying goodbye too. were soulmates this isnt fair i love him and he loves me but i guess how most people would say its not enough rite. im having a hard time dealing with this pain can i have some sincere advice please.