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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 10:37 PM CST

Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:

I think she already did and that's really how he got the cut on his head.....

Now we know the rest of the story!

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 10:36 PM CST

Ocee35 wrote:

Usually.

Oooh, so you like it rough!

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 10:34 PM CST

Ocee35 wrote:

Do you have plans tonight?Loaded question...or polite conversation?
Context..out of the blue, opposite sex, just met.

My guess, she want to make plans with you. Hint, hint! What's she got to do, hit you upside the head with a 2 by 4?

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 10:31 PM CST

Tech49 wrote:

I have always like to lick the icing, without the cake

Now that's what I'm talking about!

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 10:29 PM CST

StressFree wrote:

"According to a new study, some men carry a specific genetic variation that makes it harder for them to form lasting bonds with women."

Like we needed a study to tell us that some men are genetically predisposed to being assholes?

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 10:25 PM CST

Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:

I don't think it's the flowers...I think it's the please contact me message she doesn't like....

I don't see why that's a problem either, you like them, you send a flower or message back, if you don't, then don't. No problemo.

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 10:15 PM CST

I'm sorry, I've not been keeping up with all this, just the headlines and that's about more than I care to know, but does she not look just like Karen on Will & Grace?

Not saying that's a bad thing.

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 10:05 PM CST

dazzling_dave wrote:

If he's going to run for the hills, better to find out now. Be yourself and do what you feel like doing. If you can't be you around him, then better off without him.

My feelings exactly. The ones that have run for the hills, well it pi$$ed me off cause I couldn't understand why cause I thought we were having a good time, but I am better off without them.

It's better to say too much, than never to say what you need to say. My new motto.

I'm really thinking maybe the reason he said it is cause he does feel a little insecure, and maybe that's not such a bad thing. Does that make any sense, I mean I've had the players that knew all the right moves, and that has never worked out. Maybe the ball really is in my court, or whatever sports metaphor that is. I'm thinking maybe a compromise, send him an email and tell him I had fun and to call me.

Thanks guys and gals, you know I'm gonna do what I want to anyway!

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 9:46 PM CST

wixomwizard wrote:

GPNARUCNA

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 9:45 PM CST

kidatheart wrote:

Do you want to talk to him? If so, just call him. What's so difficult about making a phone call that it has to undergo such scrutiny in public? Why does it seem to get so complicated for no apparent reason?

This is 2008, women are allowed to use the phone for more than just making hair appointmemnts.

Yeah, that woud have always been my first idea, I have never had a problem calling a guy if he's already been calling me. But I have screwed up or been screwed over so much here lately so I'm trying to at least think about what I do before I do it. I don't know if it's even worth the scrutiny I'm putting into it, but I'd at least like the chance to find out without him running for the hills first.

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 9:34 PM CST

Justme4uok wrote:

and I like them!!!!!

Me too, I love flowers from almost anybody.

Thank you wiz!

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 9:26 PM CST

wixomwizard wrote:

He is throwing the ball back into your court, now he wants to see how much interest you have in him and with a good many guys, not all, this means sexual opportunity. I lot of guy's like to sample the goods before they make a descision and even then ,beware! Again, I say beware; again, I say not all.

Not all of us are after a quick piece, on the other hand, use caution. Trust me my Bama Belle, women do not corner the market on MANipulation!

I know that, and I suck at it. Never been able to manipulate anyone, male or female, into doing anything! I'm too freakin' independent, I'd rather just do it myself than put all that effort into figuring out what manipulation would work. That is if just asking doesn't work.

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 9:19 PM CST

kidatheart wrote:

Call him if you want to talk to him, or don't. Maybe he'll call you, maybe he won't

It's not a "man" thing.

Is it just your perception of how he said it that makes it seem like a "power play"? Or has he indicated in other ways that he's like that?On second thought, forget about him, don't call, kick his dog and burn down his house. He might be decent, but you can never be too careful.

Wow, you're a lot of help!

Ok, everything but kick his dog!

(Really not sure if he has one.

)

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 9:16 PM CST

diogenes wrote:

Call your favorite Texan.

Uhh, digits hon, if I had yours this would not be a problem!

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 9:14 PM CST

Ocee35 wrote:

If you enjy spending time with him, call him, if he turns into jackass, he would have done that eventually anyway.He could just be looking for a bit of reassurance that you enjoy your time together
and aren't just coming along for the ride..

That's kinda the impression I got, he's not really the player type, just a good old country boy.

But what do I know?

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 9:05 PM CST

desmond wrote:

Bev you should not have to caal if he really likes you and had a great time he should what another date don't chase him around

Cr@p, that's what I was afraid you'd all say. What if he seems a little insecure about things, should I maybe email him and let him know I did have a good time and would like to get to know him better? He did say, you have my number and my email. Then I said you've got mine too. So, email at least?

Sorry gals, I'm deferring to the men on this, they are the only ones who know the insane workings of the male mind.

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 8:57 PM CST

katiecharlyn wrote:

hi bev!! you have mail at the space!!!!

Hi K, how's it going? Feeling better?

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 8:52 PM CST

and any women who have a clue what goes on in men's heads. Never mind, no woman can or should know that.

What does it mean when you've seen a man a couple or three times, had a real good time, and he tells you to call him, in a way that seems to mean, if you want to see me call me. Is it some kind of power play, like seeing how much you really want to see him, or what?

Second question, should I? I hate this stage of a relationship, I never know what the rules are.

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 8:45 PM CST

There is no prince charming, grow up and quit wasting your time on fairy tales. If you're extremely lucky you'll find a frog who'll turn into a decent man, but no princes, sorry.

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Sep 3, 2008, 8:42 PM CST

I know I'm just weird for a woman, but sex is important. Yeah, it's the icing on the cake, but who wants cake without icing? And haven't you ever had a tub of icing in the fridge and just ate a little of it out of the container cause you wanted it and didn't feel like baking a cake right at the moment to put it on? Sure, it's not what you want all the time, and it sure as heck ain't a balanced diet, but just sometimes . . .

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