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spiceygamble: I have a friend who's marriage dissolved. One child was caught in the middle.
This person has now advanced in their career to the degree of allowing for the [b[purchase of the latest BMW in two weeks pay. It was understood in advance the benefits of placing the children with the other partner... so that's what was done. Neither party is neglectful or abusive... at fault or a bad parent. The situation simply called for a difficult choice in order to make the lives of three people easier & more beneficial. The child is turning 6 this year, hascollege paid for in full, a house in their name & stands to inherent a multi million $ business. The ex is living with no financial worries, has been given a new home, a new car & needn't ever work again, even if they remarry.

This is one example of making a hard choice out of love. If you did not know the story behind this situation, one could assume the worse. In fact, this is an example of love in one of the highest form... sacrifice.

My father taught me very young that when you assume you make an ass out of you & me.

Walking the line between preferences & prejudices is a complicated thing... and gets more complicated every day.

...to each their own, but lay in the bed you make...

spiceygamble: There you go assuming again.
Take a step back from your perceptions & read that again...

Do you even grasp who made the sacrifice?
They all have a better life now... and I bet you can't even tell who made the real sacrifice.
Don't assume anything about their situation. Just read what details are there.

Think about it again.
Switch the characters around in your head & try it from another perspective.

Claayer: hahah which man?

Claayer: I have a RL friend who used to live here in my town. She too was married with 3 children.. they were about 12 - 10 and 5 at the time.

She met someone on the internet .. left her husband and children .. and moved 400 miles away.

I was stunned! and so sad for them all.. two f the kids would come here to play sometimes.. and they would cry and cry.. it was heartbreaking to see.

I remember trying to tactfully ask her once.. why? .. and she said .. 'Just because I am a woman doesn't mean I am maternal.. I just wasn't cut out to be a mother, I just can't do it'



I have often read that on profiles.. the 'don't live with me' thing... I just assumed it usually meant 'Grown up and gone' ... but now I see there is that other option there.. I wonder..

spiceygamble: I have a friend who's marriage dissolved. One child was caught in the middle.
This person has now advanced in their career to the degree of allowing for the purchase of the latest BMW in two weeks pay. It was understood in advance the benefits of placing the children with the other partner... so that's what was done. Neither party is neglectful or abusive... at fault or a bad parent. The situation simply called for a difficult choice in order to make the lives of three people easier & more beneficial. The child is turning 6 this year, has college paid for in full, a house in their name & stands to inherent a multi million $ business. The ex is living with no financial worries, has been given a new home, a new car & needn't ever work again, even if they remarry.

This is one example of making a hard choice out of love. If you did not know the story behind this situation, one could assume the worse. In fact, this is an example of love in one of the highest form... sacrifice.

My father taught me very young that when you assume you make an ass out of you & me.

Walking the line between preferences & prejudices is a complicated thing... and gets more complicated every day.

...to each their own, but lay in the bed you make...

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thewall2: I'M an honour,a scholar,and a GENTLEMEN.

sxc666: No doubt it is in a lot of circumstances. But I was asking from my point a view about why a guy does it.

Claayer: me too..

mainly distributed to the BIN!

Ambrose2007: Please don't call me "Finky," Claire (it hits too close to home).

Can anyone say hair transplant??

pixiestyx: no i havent and no i never would..I am happy to be me.....

dcj22: I would get a boob job in a heartbeat.

Indyfella: Yeah....those bras get all tangled w/each other. Glad I'm not a woman!

Hugz_n_Kissez: Geeze ya don't have to get sooooo violent.....

Hag_n_Pisser: Stop it...I am all hot and bothered!!!!!!!

sxc666:
Maybe you just need a break.

Hugz_n_Kissez: Ya gotta quit bringing all those drag-queens home then!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Indyfella: It's not the roses that are a bitch......it's the thorns .

sxc666: Bloody Hell you two