Posted: Sep 13, 2008, 3:54 PM CST
gingerb wrote:My definition would be similar to yours Ambrose, because I would feel compassion and want to help, or be there if someone else was hurting, whether I liked them or not, and regardless of their situation.
I'd find it impossible to feel someone else's pain (empathy), and never presume to, since personal hurt is relative to individual experience, and try as we might, we never exactly fit anyone else's shoes.
Compassion for me then, is seeing something or someone hurting for whatever reason, and being hurt by the wrongfulness of the situation as much as by the other person's or thing's pain.
Actually it's the dictionary definition, not mine, Ginger. I guess I'm not compassionate about sloppy word use - combing different concepts into one concept because it feels good to do so or something...
Here's a good discussion from Wikipedia about "Compassion":
"Compassion is best described as an understanding of the emotional state of another; not to be confused with empathy. Compassion is often combined with a desire to alleviate or reduce the suffering of another; to show special kindness to those who suffer. Compassion may lead one to feel empathy with another person. Compassion is often characterized through actions, wherein a person acting with compassion will seek to aid those they feel compassionate for.
"Compassionate acts are generally considered those which take into account the suffering of others and attempt to alleviate that suffering. In this sense, the various forms of the Golden Rule are in part based on the concept of compassion, if also on the concept of empathy.
"Compassion differs from other forms of helpful or humane behavior in that its focus is primarily on the alleviation of suffering. Acts of kindness which seek primarily to confer benefit rather than relieve existing suffering are better classified as acts of altruism, although, in this sense, compassion itself can be seen as a subset of altruism, it being defined as the type of behavior which seeks to benefit others by reducing their suffering."
Also, (Merriam-Webster): sympathetic consciousness of others' distress together with a desire to alleviate it.
Jeff
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