jasonwells1982: I been single for over 7 years and can't even get a girlfriend I wish there was woman on here that likes me i'm a really nice guy and a caring person I just wish there's a woman on here that likes me.
I have to say, in your comment I see the problem... you want to "have a girlfriend". I know what you mean, but if I was Sigman Freud, I'd say that tells it all. You need a relationship not to "have a girlfriend".
I probably shouldn't give you advice because I'm probably more fucked than you are but I am recovering from, lack of a better word, "break-up" so I am chatty.
For me, I felt like a failure, like some how the fact that I wasn't in a relationship meant I was some how worth less a human being. Those kind of thoughts just put you down the hole quicker. Getting confident takes some sort of vindication some sort of accomplishment and confidence (not cockiness) is what women find attractive. You can't fake it, you can't break the rules of attraction. Believe me, I tried everything... some I am way too embarrassed to admit to... at least in a public forum. It isn't your money, your car or even, really, your body, they care about, women care about what is on the inside. Don't get me wrong, all those things are added bonuses, but none of them will close the deal. Women respond to confidence.
Once you get women (notice the plural) then you can start making the decision about who is right for you.
Start this by investing in yourself, maybe it's a tailored suit? Maybe you need to go learn a new skill? Keep in mind, this exercise is for you, for you to feel better about you and that will develop into confidence.
At least that is my opinion, I could be full of shit.
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