Dear Friend
Sometimes what we want is not what is always good for us despite our best intentions. When we put all of ourselves into a relationship, in some ways we lose a part of ourselves. We forget that we are a whole person in ourself.
Things change for a reason, perhaps not what we want but because the door always opens to a new and better opportunity. Remember the saying, "Where one door closes, a window opens"? Try to remember those words. This is a learning experience in our journey of this life.
I've been in the resentment art and distrust cycle in a relationship with a cheating, abusive spouse. Mine ended in divorce because of it. Yes, I hurt and grieved for a few year, but time healed my hurt and now a new person has walked into my life through the door that opened up. My divorce was a learning experience for me. I learned about my inner strength because of it and during these past months of pain and healing and undergoing the pain of a few friendships ending. They were more learning experiences. The pain we suffer is a learning experience and is a chance to help us grow, to help us learn how to spread our wings and fly.Everything happens for a reason, though that reason may not be apparent at this very moment.
Try to learn from this experience.I've learned one thing through my life's experiences in relationships: Never, ever make someone a priority who doesn't make you theirs.
As for breakiintentions. When we put all of ourselves into a relationship, in some ways we lose a part of ourselves. We forget that we are a whole person in ourself.
Things change for a reason, perhaps not what we want but because the door always opens to a new and better opportunity. Remember the saying, "Where one door closes, a window opens"? Try to r
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