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Baggage - don't talk about your past relationships, intimate details of your life, what your therapist says, your hopes and fears, your grocery list of what you want in a partner. Keep it light, simple, mysterious and the person won't be overwhelmed and may even be curious to know more about you.


What NOT to take on a first date.: click here to read the entire thread »

I just changed the age range under "his basics" in my profile. Why?

Two things:

1. I was missing out by limiting the upper age range. Interesting men were not emailing me because they thought they were too old to interest me.

2. I'm reading this book "Cougar: A Guide For Older Women Dating Younger Men". The book is funny. Why not date younger men if they are willing?

I've changed my way of thinking! How about that?


Age Range: click here to read the entire thread »

I vote for afternoon, you know, kind of lunch hour recreation. Of course, then there's the evening during the movie on the couch action, and then there's the semi-conscious quickie when the alarm clock goes off in the morning. Well, I guess - what the question again??????


sex question: click here to read the entire thread »

Good for you, Cat! A new adventure!


OK, anyone offered a new job TODAY?: click here to read the entire thread »

Thre's always hope of meeting s new, fun person. That's what is so great about modern communication. Even if dating isn't possible, sites like this can bring you new friends!


Are they any fun, loving women left out there who haven't lost hope in finding that special someone : click here to read the entire thread »

I once met a man - he was tall, dark, piercing blue eyes - what a hunk!!!!! But he could not read, smoked cigars in the bathtub and wanted to build a house and live in the capped foundation. he was great to look at....BUT!


Our personal taste of perfection....: click here to read the entire thread »

The most unique experience I had is raising my youngest son. He was born premauturely, weighing only 1 pound 11 ounces. He's severely handicapped. I had never dealt with any handicapped people before and usually would not interact with them when I encountered them. Now I live life from the other side and I see how people look at the handicapped, how they stare, avoid and give help only to make themselves like they are doing someone a favor. It's been an amazing education. Keep doing those random acts of kindness, BeN21, they are what it's all about...


whats the best/most unique experiance youve ever had?: click here to read the entire thread »

Really? William Gibson is one of my favorite authors - I loved "Mona Lisa Overdrive".


what the heck is cyber ?: click here to read the entire thread »

This statement I think assumes the other person wants to go, and the best you can do for YOURSELF is to say bye bye and not wait around for them to return.


True Or False & Why - If you love someone set them FREE if they return it is meant to be. If not it: click here to read the entire thread »

I guess it depends what you call "Luck". I have met many nice people through emails on this site and others. Usually it goes no further than that. On the forum, I chat with a group, but it's only chatting.

I had one local guy who seemed interested, but after a month of chatting, he wanted me to drop in at his place and was not available when I suggested we meet at a public place.

I guess what slows all this down is distance - does the person live near enough or have the means to visit you? - and - does he have the incentive to step up and say "let's meet in person in a public place"?

And finally, it's luck and fishing - you just have to keep casting your line out there and hope that you get a bite!


Online Dating Services.... Do they actually work? and r there any nice, caring people out there?: click here to read the entire thread »

I'd say that I'm not as easily impressed as I used to be.....


HAS YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIPS MADE YOU WISER OR MORE SKEPTICAL WHEN ENTERING A NEW RELATIONSHIP?: click here to read the entire thread »

I need a man to bring me flowers and to tell me I'm just the greatest thing since sliced bread.

Good Luck at the clubs with your club, Cute


What do you need today?: click here to read the entire thread »

The question of the day is "Who's being played".


Game players aren't going to tell you there playing games!: click here to read the entire thread »

Which mean old guy is that?


How much younger or older would you date: click here to read the entire thread »

Please, someone else notice what landshark said to this lady....


How about those Minute Men !: click here to read the entire thread »

And thank you, Mike, for putting in so much time and effort to write the initial message of this thread.


Game players aren't going to tell you there playing games!: click here to read the entire thread »

Pardon me for the comment. I see now that it's none of my business.


Fun and Games are Just Great -- but -- Topic HigjJacking is Not Fair: click here to read the entire thread »

Yep, remember when, at last call, guys would hang around the ladies room door and hit on any women who passed by? Looks or personality was not a factor....


whats more inportant look or pesonality?: click here to read the entire thread »

Now let's get down to the most important point made on this thread - Doug should shave off his beard, so he can look younger and be perceived as younger AND feel younger! Shall we have a vote, ladies?


Fun and Games are Just Great -- but -- Topic HigjJacking is Not Fair: click here to read the entire thread »

Well, there was no tree, but I did go to the farm to plant peas :)


Did everyone go to the tree at the same time?: click here to read the entire thread »