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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
BarrenPneuma: And as evidenced by the profusion of late night votes perhaps it is likewise in the eyes of the beer holder...?


Hiya long time no see grin.... wave


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Tater: I just read your statement again, and it seems like you are saying you were living off your mother, and now that she is gone, you want help... Maybe it is time for you to grow up and be a man, and what is with the state of mind comment, I have to many questions...not trying to be insensitive..



What is wrong with you?????? why are you being so nasty?? this guy who seems like a stand up guy who had a good relationship with his mum and who appears to care deeply about his kids is hurting right now and you somehow think it is appropriate to kick the book in.... u nasty little man!!very mad


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Hugz_n_Kissez: You have to have confidence in yourself girlie...anyone who judges you by a pic is not worth getting to know anyway...men are attracted to women of all sizes and shapes...and a lot of us are single mothers and fathers too...it's about finding the one who loves and completely excepts you for who you are...the rest don't matter....so be confident in the beautiful woman that you are...and one day...love will find you....


Well said!! thumbs up.. plus she is veeerry pretty.. shouldn't think there will be a problem... AND ur 22 u lucky thing!!!!

wave.. Hiya Hugs... hug


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
jbibiza: When two people connect you can share more with each other in the course of a night then many who date for weeks... it all depends on how open and honest people are with each other.

When you have that kind of connection... you don´t let something like the end of the night stop what´s happening between you...that magic of just getting lost in each other... there´s no feeling like it...


Blokes don't always see it as 'lovemaking' or a 'connection'... often its just scratching an itch... a human substitute to their hand if you will....

Just go to any pub or club on a Saturday night... do u seriously think these guys are looking to 'make love' or form a physical 'connection'... and how many girls.... lets be honest have gotten the proverbial 'cold shoulder' after what they thought was a 'connection'... dunno.. of course all guys are not like that, and there is sooo much more than sex in the equation when it comes to meeting ur mrs or mr right.. but in the meantime.. lets not kid ourselves into thinking that alot of gratutituous 'using' goes on in the meantime... there are ALOT of frogs out there..


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Aww... I am reeally pleased for u Stress... she sounds like a keeper alright grin... particularly the way she gets you... thats soooo coool!!! cool... hug cheers


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Tamarin: Understood Aries

My new man is an Aries....any helpful tips!!!


No not really honey... my twin..(a bloke) is soooo different to me.. and I don't know many more Aries... Good luck though!!cheers


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
kissmedeeply: Well i know some will think i was a W.......

but i dont regret any moment when it happen..

maybe not the wise choice..becos you really dont
know where it may end up...but i think when we
were here talking all this time i knew what would
happen next..


I don't know what you mean by W.... but I can say that you have only ever given the impression that you are a lady, and a good mum who genuinely loves her man..

Yours is a lovely and genuinely romantic ending...

wine hug


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Aries01: Tamarin seriously.... should We judge all situations by this standard...not ALL breakups are as a result of domestic violence... of course if there is violence in the home.. get out quick!!!.. I don't see that situation as the norm... many relationships struggle.. couples will have challenges, hard times, they might get bored, the passion might wane a little.. this is not a reason to throw in the towel in my estimation... this should be the time when you fight for ur marriage... (those I know who did are reaping the rewards of perseverance)...if there is domestic violence it would be in the kids interest to get out quick...



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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Tamarin seriously.... should be judge all situations by this standard...not ALL breakups are as a result of domestic violence... of course if their is violence in the home.. get out quick!!!.. I don't see that situation as the norm... many relationships struggle.. couples will have challenges, hard times, they might get bored, the passion might wane a little.. this is not a reason to throw in the towel in my estimation... this should be the time when you fight for ur marriage... (those I know who did are reaping the rewards of perseverance)...if their is domestic violence it would be in the kids interest to get out quick...


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
kissmedeeply: Yup and i was one of them...i slept with my husband on the
first date..


thumbs up.. urs is one of the reeaaally rose-mantic stories.. wine.


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
I agree their is alot of hypocracy evident in these senarios.... the biggest is guys doing their utmost to get what they want only to then accuse HER of being the guilty one... having said that though.... increasingly liberal sex among females is unlikely to cure this anomaly... sigh.... perhaps we should assert our ownership of our bodies and dignity by not parading ourselves as primarily sexual beings.... we are sooooo much more..




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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Hiya Jan.. what a lovely photo smile.... I know I should have gone into more detail really... was a kind of a spontaneous thread that arose out of another thread....

But yeah obviously there are different situations that could arise..i.e. two people who know eachother for a long time and have feelings for eachother long before the opportunity presents itself..

I am sure their have been couple that went on to marry after sleeping together on the first date.. just guaging the general view really....

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
immanuelle: I figure, what's the harm in holding off until you know each other a little better. I know that I would not lend my toothbrush to someone after knowing hanging out with them for 5 or 6 hours, why would I give my body?

All that said....keep away from the tequila on a first date or all brain thought goes wacky


laugh.. very well put thumbs up


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
mbcasey: Hi Aries..good to see you.

It depends. At my age, I don't think it is a big deal. Alot of women have grandchildren at this age.

Personally, I don't want to sleep with a woman I am not in love with. That is just me. But for others, if you both are ok with it, have some fun!!


Hiya wave.. I wouldn't dare judge its not my place.. just curious is all..

It seems to me sometimes that girls have moved miles ahead of men with their liberal sexual living and men are still stuck in the mindset that they will happily take whats on the plate, but when it comes to love.. want to know their girl is not easy.. not saying all men, cause I personally know men who don't... just posing the question...


Can people really do that? Can we take emotions out of the equation altogether?... is there not a high risk that someone is going to get hurt.. and is that ok? is that the message we should be giving kids?... just curious.. wine


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
I see what u mean Chris. the point I was basically making is that Men still like a girl who respects herself and doesn't give herself too easy.... and despite all the media film/pop culture messages we are being given, attitudes in that regard have not changed much..

thats all.. cause I thought someone of my Bro's age wouldn't give a toss to be honest.... and it doesn't come from anywhere but him... doesn't come from his family or religion... (he shows zero interest in religion) our family is very hippy like and liberal in a lot of ways.. my Dads an Artist, my Mum a retired self employed business woman... so this view is an organic one.. just curious... What is the male view on this..


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
dazzling_dave: What does it say about me if I allow it to happen?


laugh... this isn't an exercise in judgment.. just curious... grin..


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
cristina: And the difference between the Irish men and UK men in that sense? Please don't send me to do the home work


Dunno.. but I went out with an English guy.. who liked the fact that we waited.. he had played the field... and didn't think much of girls that threw themselves at him... he got bored with it.. his words.. not mine.. think I posted on this before.. he really treasured the whole thing...

Don't know if all English men are like him, but he certainly thought highly of a girl who waited.. hug


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Aries01: Just curious what the international male view on this is.. give reasons if you can... just curious.. spin off of virginity poll..


Just to clarify.. this girl is a 'potential' not a drunken fumble..


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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
cristina: and, interestingly, those societies that still endorse virginity are the ones that have machism tendencies. If not in working level, it is emotionally.
I had a Polish bf, i have dealt with Polish people a lot. There is great machism in them in the sense that the woman is not free from their spoiled, depressive maniac feelings. They tend to immerge in their existencial problems and their women should stick to what's concrete, what's real in life. It's a form of machism and they are highly catholics, they find it wonderful when i woman is "reserved" but she must be brilliant at the same time,as to project them, their almost innexistency-to what concerns upfronting in life of course.
How are men there in Ireland in the religious community Aries?



Hiya... the Catholic Religion has little influence these days... and Irish men.. like any men are happy to take what they can get.. defo not say no to it.. but they still wanna marry the good girls as far as I can see.. not sayin its fair, just the way it seems to be here...

I don't know what it is like in other cultures... whether Irish blokes are unique in this.. must put up a poll to check...

wave wine


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