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If you like and admire her it should be love; the test for me is if he gets on my nerves, I know I don't like him, therefore I can't be in love and much less love him. I cannot be attracted to someone who gets on my nerves even if he is drop dead gorgeous; there you have it, my theory or test of love;not too complicated I hope.
If someone annoys u and u STILL love them... that would be a test too... commitments based on love can withstand the 'downs' and appreciates the 'ups'....
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