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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Fri Nov 7, 2008 5:19 AM CST : has anybody ever walked out ofcollege or university because they never liked the people in the class

that would be biting of ur nose to spite your face which would be childish and a bit pathetic... becuase at the end of the day.. the person walking out would lose out and the others well if they were nasty would have got their own way....

I wouldn't be too proud to go back either if I had for some reason left

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Fri Nov 7, 2008 5:11 AM CST : Why do people think that monogomy is....

People think marriage is the problem.. its not!! people are the problem... everybody wants and instant fix these days without the consequence.. denying urself every now and then for the sake of something bigger than you... i.e. a relationship .. a family... will lead to rewards in the longterm which will far outweigh any orgasism...

Ever see an unhappy faithful commited couple who put eachother before themselves?... do you think it likely that their kids will be unhappy, lost and imbalanced...

I know what I would prefer.. a loving committed relationship based on mutual respect (consequently monogamy)... and (if I have them)happy well adjusted kids... ya see my life does not revolve around me.. and because it doesn't I have some chance of lasting secure happiness

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Fri Nov 7, 2008 3:51 AM CST : Why do people think that monogomy is....

rasgumby: Dead wrong!!!

not all people act like dogs.. and frankly I am insulted.
I have been single for years and still only date one girl at a time.. always have. all or nothing.

Sex is not all a relationship is about.

Sorry, I give no one validation for cheating in a relationship.
As one ages.. into older age and you play the field constantly.. you end up alone.
The best sex partner will finally win out and you will be left.

playing the field is just caring about yourself and really not giving a damn about any ONE else.

then when these players get dropped, they wonder why

This is the reason we were given larger brains...

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Fri Nov 7, 2008 3:49 AM CST : Why do people think that monogomy is....

incest is taboo.. again for practical reasons.. children born out of such senarios have an increased risk of low intelligence and serious deformity...

she is not a freak...nobody made her feel that way, people were actually very kind to her and felt very sorry for the situation... she herself was scarred by the thought that she was in love with and sexually attracted to her brother...

cmon... I am actually feeling rather sorry for you at this point B... we need moral codes.. religious or no... and you seem to have none..

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Fri Nov 7, 2008 3:42 AM CST : Why do people think that monogomy is....

Geez..

.. sex was not built principally for recreation... it was designed for procreation.. the urges that we get are to propell us to that end... marriage contains it for very practical reasons that I have mentioned earlier.. the alternative just does not work.. why would it? how could it?

BnaturAl: weak mind?

It seems to me that the propensity to engage another isn't necessarily person specific. When I feel the need for affection or sexual relief, it seldom (if ever) shows up addressed to any one particular person. Its my need that propels generally.

The thought that I must only seek that affection with only one person is "environmentally" established, even guilt tripped by religion and society.

I'm not suggesting that we run amock, just that if we had been taught to not to indulge jealousy, there would be less need to assign our needs to one person, who may or may not be in position to sate us.

I myself am manogamous ... my thoughts on the matter however are that things would be different had i not been raised in an environment where marriage is the only acceptable lifestyle.

Soulmates is a myth and I think this so called norm leaves a lot of humans without sated needs for affection, intimacy and connection, because we don't just allow ourselves to be intimate with more people.

hug me?

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Nov 6, 2008 6:52 PM CST : Why do people think that monogomy is....

RillyNiceGuy: There was a woman with 17 kids and she had named them all John.

Her friend asked why she named them all John.

She told her that she can yell John and they all come.

Her freind said," how do you call one without the others."

She replied, "Then I call him by his last name."

Lovely society that would be huh?

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Nov 6, 2008 6:46 PM CST : Why do people think that monogomy is....

RillyNiceGuy: In this world there are things that promotes civilization..... and that is civilized behavior and order. Without order there is confusion and the fall of a people. Look to history! Many nations have fallin due to a life without limits. This nation will fall if changes are not made to bring order to lives. The family unit is all but destroyed.....this is the root of civilization...no matter how much you rationalize it away!

Truth has been destroyed. Look how life would be if all were honest! Then look a see how life would be if all were as they should be in a marriage and were faithful to the family.There is a great saying, "A house divided against itself can not stand."

.. good post.. was actually heading to bed. but had to post...

Absolutely.. the quote is from the bible (perhaps a paraphrase)the ultimate source of wisdom and truth..

I have to say I used to think myself fairly liberal.. but look where liberal has got us.... now I could more accurately describe myself as a conservative socialist.. if there is such a thing.. .I really care about society.. and people which is why I think people should stand back and take a good hard look at where this way of life has got us... we are looking at potential world financial meltdown because of selfish capitalist greed.. 1 in 2 marriages are breaking up.. kids are shooting kids.. parents are killing their own children... little girls as young as 14 are going to school dances with no pants on (cause Britney did it).. when.. WHEN are we going to concede that it doesn't work like this.. life is just not mean to be like this..... phew

.. there I said it..

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Nov 6, 2008 6:31 PM CST : What is an acceptable age gap between a Man and Woman??

busterduke: Im only asking this because I am 40 yrs old and to be honest it appears at times that all the good ladies are taking that are my age (I said it appears so please dont go off on me) and I refuse to settle soooooooo I have a tendency to go younger. And YES it does boost your ego I suppose Soooooo my question is what is acceptable because I am clueless at this point so HELP!!! Especially ladies!

over 25 would be ok... at 25 you have an idea where you are at.. well girls usually do....

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Nov 6, 2008 6:22 PM CST : Why do people think that monogomy is....

BnaturAl: We are what we tell ourselves we are, what our own particular social environs expect of us.

Being different is frowned upon, so we acquiesce to the norm. It becomes engrained in us and voila, all of a sudden you have a frickin opinion that how you are is the way it's supposed to be, when truely had you been raised by people without "emotionally imprisoned' values, you would think that is the way you should be...

Undoing what has become our accepted norms however, would be difficult especially when everyone else thinks you're off your rocker because of it.

it aint easy being me..

sweetie.. I sometimes think that you are so 'open minded' that your mind has no boundaries at all...

There is order and purpose to most things.. whether we like it or not.. and they have so for a reason usually...

Promiscuity and/or jumping from sexual partner to sexual partner would create chaos... fatherless children everywhere... far more potential for incest as brothers and sisters inadvertently date each other (happened in my town... when the girl found out.. she was never right in the head again.. poor thing)... its just nonsense its not about wanting to restrict people or cramp their sexual style its about human kind its about nurturing... its about healthy relationships and ultimately a healthy society...

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Nov 6, 2008 6:15 PM CST : Why do people think that monogomy is....

I know from the family law courts and childcare courts that for most children their biological father will NEVER be replaced.. even if he is a low down piece of s**t... ya see biological connection is a really powerful force and the effect on children where one parent is absent is visable and clear... not to say they will end up axe murderers..but they do always long for the absent parent even where they have a great nurturer in their lives or a great step/adoptive parent... blood... thicker than water and all that....

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Nov 6, 2008 6:10 PM CST : Why do people think that monogomy is....

mike69spain: If we were truly monogamous by nature, we would not even have this discussion. Neither would we have jealousy, marriage counselling, divorces and so on.

As said here, we are what we choose to be. And sometimes we find this special one that consumes all our interest and amorous energy; make us behave as if we were.

But I do not know many men that do not appreciate the good looks of other women even when he is in a healthy and happy relation and not looking to “mate”.

I still call me monogamous, but I do not think I am by nature - I am by choice.

Yes we can 'choose' what we want with free will and all.... just as some festishists 'choose' to dress up as babies in giant nappies doesn't mean it is a natural state.. the reason there is so much divorces etc.. is people have become sooo much more selfish and are concerned more about their own needs rather than anyone elses... the secret to a good relationship is putting the others needs before ur own.. if both do that then you are both on the receiving end

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Nov 6, 2008 5:30 PM CST : Why do people think that monogomy is....

I disagree... monogamy is the natural condition.. lest we forget... and we often do.. the biological purpose of sex is procreation not recreation.... monogamy promotes a healthy upbringing for human children who.. ulike their animal kingdom counterparts needs nurturing for a much longer period of time... and while yes.. single parents can do a really good job.. its not the ideal... think even they would tell you that....cause its a bloody hard jobs.. thankless and expensive.. so NO monogamy is not like to be an 'unatural' condition...

JMV

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Nov 6, 2008 5:15 PM CST : It really makes my blood boil!!!!!!!!!!!!!

.. sad but true... Compassion seems to be sooo lacking in society, even among those whom you would suspect would have it.... what happened to empathy.. has it been bred out of us??....

It seems that people have a lessening capacity to 'feel' for anyone that isn't themselves or somebody connected to them (ie family & friends) etc...

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Nov 6, 2008 5:10 PM CST : cute older women with younger guys???

lusciousmile: I know what you're saying. Even i don't date younger men.

... reeeeeaaaally.. even you??

....

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Nov 6, 2008 4:59 PM CST : you want to get married,but your partner dont wan children

If it was a card that nature dealt then fine... but if not, i.e. different intentions... then nope... sadly no.... think you would just end up resenting that person...

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Nov 6, 2008 4:53 PM CST : cute older women with younger guys???

DVH13: I'm pretty sure that cute older women going for younger guys is only in the movies??? cause I've noticed that most women don't really want a younger guy cause of the uncertainty of the level of maturity that comes with that kind of relationship???

(but isn't it worth trying sometimes)

idk though, got any ideas

Hey

... I think in reality it does make a big difference to a relationship what age the respective people are... we can be as freewilled and liberal as we like but if the bloke wants to play his playstation and hang with the boys in the mall and his 'girl/woman' wants to get married, settle down and have babies.. then it is most likely going to cause problem... also its kinda wierd a person (say my age) going out with someone say 19-20

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Nov 6, 2008 4:32 PM CST : Calvin and Hobbes Snowmen Art

Oh..... I am a huuuuuuuge Calvin and Hobbes fan... I adooooore them!!!

Thanks

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Wed Nov 5, 2008 5:23 PM CST : I have flowered woman on this sight I have IM'd them what am I doing wrong?

cristina: Definitely mother instinct tonight girl?

You must be on your period.

Nope... I don't even have a valid excuse.. ah I'm just a big 'mammy' at heart... can't help it...

... how r u sweetie

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Wed Nov 5, 2008 5:15 PM CST : I have flowered woman on this sight I have IM'd them what am I doing wrong?

unfortunate choice of name there pal..

... otherwise be patient.. get to know the girl, then she will happy to speak to you.. girls just don't necessarily like random IM's I certainly don't

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Wed Nov 5, 2008 5:09 PM CST : Hush you are all very quiet

mindfful: phil i thot you said you were never gonna return to CS?

oh but then why give up hope to annoy?

keep hope alive

Uh.. why that unecessary comment???

...

He is welcome any time he likes.....

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