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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Fri Dec 19, 2008 8:21 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

karen1973: I shared many a chocolate eclair, and insightful conversation with him while he was with me. A love of cakes that could not be equalled! lol!

Boobies!

Ha ha... he LOVED cake!!!!

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Fri Dec 19, 2008 1:20 AM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

... if this is not going to make ANYONE 'emotional'... I don't know what is...

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Dec 18, 2008 5:31 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

cristina:

He was indeed well loved Aries.
Good you had great contact with his dad as well. It won't be easy for you to forget since there was all this apparently comfortable environment around him

Yeah.. cause you kinda think.. if you have people in your life who love u, you can get through anything.. mustn't be the case...

Gotta hit the hay..

Thanks for everything honey.. u have been sooo good

it has helped everyone who misses Phil I am sure to have had a chance to talk about him

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Dec 18, 2008 5:21 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

cristina:

He couldn't handle a relationship, no...he had always been clear about that...
It was not the women's problems, he used to say that a lot. But with all that humour of his, i'd easilly ask: "what's your problem then?"

Oh his dad...

yeah.. was part of why I found it hard to understand what he was going through.. he seemed to have so many people who really liked him... I just couldn't understand really..

When I was over there.. if he said jump his Dad would be 'how high?'.. his Dad even came into the city at 2am one morning and taxied us home..... my Mum would never do that.. unless I was in a spot of bother.. it would be a regular taxi for me.. big time!!

I felt bad.. but his Dad was totally cool... such a gentleman..

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Dec 18, 2008 5:03 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

eve1woman: Hi Aries

thanks for sharing that

what a wonderful time you both had together

your lucky to have had that special time......

I am beginning to realise that... I just regret not reconnecting... at the end of the day.. I would have been more than content with just being friends.... he couldn't handle a relationship.. he really couldn't deal with that.. but a friendship.. I just wish that I could have done things differently...

I do feel better though.. focusing on the GOOD memories...

And I feel that if he is looking down on us now.. he will see how much we cared and I want him to know that.. he was really loved.. by sooo many people..

I met his dad.. a pure gentleman.. his dad (and I have seen it) would have scaled mountains for him.. he was the apple of his dad's eye.. no doubt!!!

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Dec 18, 2008 4:58 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

cristina:

Oh Aries, you had a good time together

People who have experienced his love, through a relationship or friendship know how warm hearted he was.

Thanks for sharing baby

He obviously didn't realise it but he had a very profound effect on people... he was so unique and such a wonderful personality.. everything.. absolutely everything going for him.. have chatted with one of his old friends who his dad put me in contact with.. apparently he was brilliant at football to..... add that to intelligent, charming, funny, sensitive,.. the list goes on..

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Dec 18, 2008 4:39 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

cristina: ..

Depression is a very hard thing to understand, if you are not in that mindset..[/quote

Yes it is.

From his reports of his whole life, he had been a fighter hadn't he Aries?

Depression, is it the phisical pain that is bad or is lack of hope?

Of course i've experienced depression before, i felt lack of air to breath, not really hopeless...

For those who met him, did he smile a lot in person?

Hiya sweetheart.. yes I met him.. he came over to Dublin and I went over to Liverpool...he was an amazing guy.. we had a really lovely time.. He loved the Irish Traditional music.. we went to the Brazen Head 4 nights out of 5 and drank pints of guinness... during the day we would wander around, check out Galleries..drink tea eat yummy cake and just chat for hours.. it was lovely.. he had a really good time... his Dad said he still kept the little camera phone films of the Sessiun in the pub.....

Its hard to describe someone like Phil..he was very unique..

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Dec 18, 2008 3:43 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

vinny1967: Hi Everybody,

I have been following this thread and I would just like to comment as follows.

I have had some experience with Depression and my heart goes out to Detente as I've
seen what it can do to people.

I was touched by the comment above, to join in the thread, and I'm sure Detente would applaud you.

To be honoured and remembered after your passing is brilliant and it shows ho many people
liked Detente.

I too will continually to try to keep this thread going even if it is to say ''Boobies''.

A huge thanks to nearly all of you for your kind words for other people who may suffer.

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Depression is a very hard thing to understand, if you are not in that mindset..

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Dec 18, 2008 3:27 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

cristina: Boobies...

I forgot the compulsory

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Dec 18, 2008 3:20 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

karen1973: Just been sat here thinking, and I am sure if you asked most of the people on here to sum up Phil in one word, we all know what that word would be. I don't even have to say it! lol

BOOBIES!!

( . )( . )

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Dec 18, 2008 3:07 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

Hugz_n_Kissez: With Apologies to Walt Whitman:

To the left and to the right
To the large and to the small
Those with uplifted nipples, the push of satin bound in wire
Those with soft cups, full of life and desire,
I say to one and all
I will eat thee 'ere I sleep,
And wake with dreams of boobly-oobly on my lips.-Unknown-
RIP Phil........

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:51 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

cristina: I've been caring his smile for all days, laughing on his mails.
How could we have guessed his last stage?
He showed us to be stronger here...

Although he was not on CS, we hopped he was smiling out there.
Did he have his honor or pride to defend above all, this is why he didn't want to contact anybody? Did he die proud? Did he take himself alone, did he want to go alone? Did he prefer to go in silence? Was he that lonely? Did he not want anybody around?

I really don't want this thread to die...i want it to reach 51 pages...can we write poems, can we make it funny sometimes. It's the death of a poster guys, imagine if it was you? How many times you made me laugh? Can we stay here? Can we talk about death, about depression, about the danger that it can entail, about desperation, about how people hide it? Where is our other friend who was once depressed and asked for our advice? Did he make it?
Is it painful to talk about this? Should this thread be over? I don't know, maybe i'm being a little pushy but i will always come here whenever i feel like.

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Dec 18, 2008 1:26 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

lusciousmile: Shame on you three above me.

How dare you place blame on others, for what happened to Phil?

Would you behave the same, if say, your ex passed away and the people close to him laid some of the blame on you, because you broke up with them, or ever disagreed with them while they were living?If i died today, would all the women who dislike me here, like to be blamed, because of something they said to me once or ten times?

If that is how you chose to deal with this loss, then it's quite sad.

Think before you instigate!

If a few of us were hurt at that time.. it was BECAUSE we cared alot for him... when this situation came to light.. I was hurt, hugely disappointed and yes angry.. BECAUSE I cared for him.. that weekend I could not even stay at home.. I had to stay in a friends house because I felt sooo hurt, it was like a physical pain... I felt betrayed and so disappointed because I reeeally liked him.. I did try to reach out to him shortly after via email, explained myself and indicated that I hope we would be friends.. in fact I regretted not just keeping it just friends full stop, because while (relationship) he was mixed up and tended to push people away.. as a friend he was perfect.. witty, funny, creative, quirky and so much more.. I missed that.. greatly... I still do, and I will always have regrets...
I have also learned an important lesson.. none of know what tomorrow will bring so falling out and not talking is sooooo pointless.. I wish more than anything that I could turn back time...

Thank you Lush for your reasonable words..

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Thu Dec 18, 2008 1:32 AM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Wed Dec 17, 2008 4:14 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

FOR ANYONE WHO IS INTERESTED I HAVE SOME MORE PHOTOS OF PHIL ON MY PROFILE.. THANKS CHRISTINA..

:flower:

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Wed Dec 17, 2008 11:47 AM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

karen1973: Lets just hope he is surrounded by boobies, wherever he is.

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Wed Dec 17, 2008 11:12 AM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

p_seg: I'm sad to hear about Phil's (Detente/Aircon) passing away!

I remember him posting under both nicks and am missing his humorous posts!

Rest in Peace Phil!!

... I was just looking over my posts there.. I joined CS on the 17th December last year and the first person who responded to me was Detente (phil)...

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Wed Dec 17, 2008 10:43 AM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

Im sorry Spicey.. its not a joke.. I wish it was

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Tue Dec 16, 2008 12:43 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

constanza: We didn't say good bye properly; many things were left unsaid, but you will be missed and remembered; and you had many friends who loved you. I still remember how you were a friend when I needed one the most...you and Agesilaos. Age....Phil is gone man.....for good.

... I had always hoped that bridges would be mended... Its hard to believe

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Aries01 Dublin, Dublin Ireland

[top] Mon Dec 15, 2008 4:22 PM CST : The official "Reasons why you should date me!" thread

Phew!! lets hope ur future miss right likes a good read

.. :phew:

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