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Should you sleep with your therapist?!: click here to read the entire thread »

Sleep, with your therapist? I thought people usually develop a relationship first, then sleep with each other.


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LOL, me too. Interesting indeed!

For me it's all about the right feeling and sometimes convenience. Being accustomed to travelling to Russia by train since I was a child, I'd definitely take a train anywhere in that direction, AND just HAVE to have tea from those special glasses, with a silver glassholder.

If I go "west" (Europe proper), then it has to be in one of those Eurolines buses. That's how I first started travelling there (Germany, UK) and that's what feels best. (Not to mention the fact that e.g. to get to the UK you'd have to cross 6 countries )

In America I have no idea what you do, but I'd try both for sure, it's got to be great there too.


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Ooops, sorry, I think I've wandered into the wrong bar...


What us Guy's Want!!!: click here to read the entire thread »

I don't think I'd claim the cold beer or the TV remote. However, with those two, who needs a companion, a lover, or a wife?


What us Guy's Want!!!: click here to read the entire thread »

I love that one too!

Eurythmics - 'When Tomorrow Comes'


What you listening to? ...........: click here to read the entire thread »

Now define "by choice"?

The only "choice" that I can make is that I will not get together with people that I have nothing in common with.


Are u single or very single?: click here to read the entire thread »

Bryan Ferry - September Song


What you listening to? ...........: click here to read the entire thread »

I love that song too! And I have a Casablanca DVD here.

Anyways, I wasn't joking about getting a dog, but would be a very serious decision of course, cos a dog is for a lifetime, not until you feel better around people.


Help! Need advice...: click here to read the entire thread »

Yippee, now I know who to ask for advice when I need it!!


Do WOMEN Like a MAN Who's a Challenge ?: click here to read the entire thread »

An interesting question..

I used to only like guys with good attitudes. Then I met someone who could be generally considered a "bad" guy, but he was very (very) nice to me. Then he stopped being very nice to me, and it got really ugly - so now I am back to only liking "good" guys, cos there must certainly be a reason why a guy has "bad" attitudes, and I don't wanna find out what they are, or worse yet fall prey to them.


Do WOMEN Like a MAN Who's a Challenge ?: click here to read the entire thread »

Get a dog! He'll never "cut you out of his life", he'll ALWAYS be happy to see you and love you for who you are, AND you will most probably meet a LOT of new friends!


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Oh yes, absolutely....


Do women like drummers? Or just the lead?: click here to read the entire thread »

I believe that's what humans are given a language for.

IMO, some persistance is always nice, but if you really want to see some success, try at least changing something (to get the lady interested). Otherwise, if she does give you a chance and sees "same old" again, I doubt she'll want to bother any further. At least I wouldn't, but these are only my own speculations about the subject.


Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?: click here to read the entire thread »

I had to go check my profile, it does say Not Sure.

I know of ladies who cannot imagine NOT having children. I'm not one of them, and the more I think, the more I cannot imagine my life WITH children. (having worked as a teacher for 5 years, LOL) However, IF he was REALLY special, and IF he really wanted kids... I probably wouldn't mind adopting one, LOL.

Having been around dogs for more than 18 years, I do know what breeding is about (and how difficult it is to get it all right), and I certainly do not consider myself a prime specimen of the breed, LOL.


Question for the women of CS: click here to read the entire thread »

Yeah, I think I wish I was a male now, as there are SO many really cool and intelligent ladies around here.


Has being on the forums changed anything about you ??: click here to read the entire thread »

Yes, my breeder even did puppy evaluation over Skype once!! (the puppies were on another continent)

Still, to me the phone is the most personal way of communication (apart from "in person" itself, obviously). It's just cool to sit in a traffic jam and see that special person's number come up on your caller ID, calling you just to ask how your day is going.

Besides, Skype is SO fully of people spamming you each and every day wanting to "get to know you" these days, it's quite shocking! I wonder what criteria they use for selection...


What do you prefer: click here to read the entire thread »

Like Granny from 'the Beverly Hillbillies' said... "Bed's for sleepin', not eatin'".... and certainly not for listening to the music... Doesn't it make you too distracted to listen to Pink Floyd (of all things) when you're about to engage in other activities?


Music and Romance in the bedroom!: click here to read the entire thread »

Mine tried, I obeyed and did go on a date with the guy... It certainly did no harm, I am ready to explore all options.


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For me, a telephone call is already very personal. I mean, the person is going to be talking right into my ear, that's very close

So in no way would I want to do that first. With me, a few emails, then an IM chat (which can totally ruin any and all good impressions of the guy, especially when he made a lot of sense in the first promising emails), and then, IF all goes well, a phone call.


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