Sommerauer71: When it comes to child support,, how the marriage broke down is irrelevant.
If he has sued her for divorce on grounds of adultery, the judge will stamp the piece of paper. Lawyers are there to seperate emotional attachments and decide the best course of action, divorce is not any way indicative of whether a man should support the children.
Assets from the marriage are taken into consideration, broken down and split accordingly, the children are dealt with under a separate paper, if there is no dispute about who has residency of the children, and the father is not disputing parenthood, then that is easy. He will have to pay child support and that is the law.
Here the father has disputed parentage, his role in those children's lives, the test has been done, proven that he is not the biological father and he still has to pay?
So any woman can go out, shag as many blokes as she likes, get pregnant, to whoever, and the poor bastard that is married to her, has to pay, and take care of children, that are not his?
Nope, never right in my eyes, I would be his defending counsel, based on the facts that are presented to me.
here here.
I know friends of ours whose son was duped into an engagement with a partner on the grounds that she was preganant (to him) and had then given birth to twins.
Fact was she was shagging around with an ex boyfriend long before and after birth of twins while here partner was off at work busting his ass earning the keep. The ex kept hanging around like some dog on heat whilst pretending he was a mate!!. figurre that out!! / She knew all along!!
Only when the son heard rumours around community and became suspsicious of partner's infidelity did the truth come out. This was after he had organised his own DNA tests. You can imagine the shock, horror and shame he felt to have been so badly duped when they proved he was not the dad.
Not the least the anger and disgust from his parents, our friends, family and ourselves at this devious deception. Even the own family of the philandeing son were gob smacked. However they chose to take responsibility for their newly aquired twin grandchildren out of sympaathy for the philandering son. Work that one out guys!!
Thank goodness our system here in Australia was quick to fix this deception... so that our friend's son was not burdened with the debt by deception of parenting payments for 18 or so years.
I feel sorry for the twins that they had such a conniving cow of a parent who could do such a crap thing to a person (she called a partner)... because she lacked the guts to look him in the eye and tell him the truth, that she had been stuffing around. I know this guy and he was so gutted from this.
I would have sent her to the slammer.
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