Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 12:34 PM CST
Hi there
I agree with Nuala.... the thing is the split was fairly reasonable and he is angry but that is his issue not yours and u cant take that on... its like being a crutch.... unless u want to be one which i doubt you do...
anger is one of the hardest things to deal with as he will always blame you ... u have to look at it logically... its his anger.. not yours.. if he allows the anger to consume him it will bury him but thats still his issue NOT YOURS........ he is an adult with a brain he has to take control of his own life at some point..and lets be honest.. grow up.. . and after a year its time to do that... the realistion will dawn eventually but in the meantime if u can carry on as u are then do so with no lunches, coffee etc as nuala suggested...
JMO and i truely wish you the very best...
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