Whoa... MissRebel. I find myself wondering what it is you intend to accomplish coming in here like a bull in a china closet?
I agree it is kind of quiet here; maybe too quiet... no matter, it is what it is. I try to work with what is presented; not wanting to change anyone. I have found women here I may be interested in, however, one seems to enjoy just teasing me on-line and the other I've exchanged a few massages with isn't in the forums and doesn't check in to pick up mail for weeks going on months. Both may be intimidated with taking an on-line connection into the real world... no matter, they are who they are and do what they do.
Truth be told, I have met women friends on-line from other places and easily move to phone conversation. And I've corresponded with more men than women on-line in Minnesota, opposed to RL, where I have an easier time talking with women than men. So go figure... many times I've found that's just the way it is in this cyber world. And so I present myself here and correspond with those who will appreciate who I am, where I'm at, what I have to offer and want to be more than a picture and words on a screen.
I read much more than I write in the forums, choosing most of the time to stay out of political, religious and off the wall stupid threads started by trolls and windups; getting or giving a laugh here and there while avoiding fanatics and whackos that seem only to want an argument or fight. I feel much more like participating here and there in some of the more fun threads. However, I talk much easier than I type; sometimes takes forever to compose and be clear and then I'm a day or more late and several pages past a comment I've chosen to respond to. I'd much rather find people I can connect with in a few messages, move to talk on the phone and have more freedom of movement while living my life and getting my work done instead of wasting time sitting at this keyboard.
All that said, you might want to try being more positive, go back to other threads you started and posted to during the week you were here last and pick up the pieces left there. However IMO, starting yet another negative, critical thread, calling people names will not move anyone, even those from out of the area, to want friendship, much less participate in "new events planned". Beyond that, you say you've lived in other places and found the same problems. With that in mind, have you ever thought that there may be a more personal common element?
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