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Glad to see everyone back on here and messaging. lts been a long time since l have seen you Dawn, to bad you left niagara falls before we got to meet each other but you never know, we might just meet someday and as far as getting older, numbers dont mean anything these days, its whats inside and how old we think we are inside..heck 48 here but feel like l am 35 lol
Curly nice to see you pop in once in awhile.....


Hi Every1 - it's been awhile uh! Relocated again..: click here to read the entire thread »

One of the special moments was a few years back when my daughter who is 23 now asked me to go to the mall with her. l was kind of taken back because since l am her mom l would have thought she would have rather gone with her friends, biut no she wanted me.
Well there she treated me to lunch and we had a great day of shopping and just talking and laughing at all the crazy people just like us that had braved the cold and winter storm to head to the mall. After all our money was spent she stated that she had one more thing we needed to do...to my surprise we headed to the farthest end of the mall, turned the corner and there he was...SANTA.....l looked at her and she smiled and said...mom l just thought we should get a picture of you and me and santa...its been way to long since we had a pic with him, together...l almost cried when l realized just how much my daughter does love me and still wants to spend time with just me...pic was taken and every year when l get that picture out and think back to that day l realize that even after they say they hate you, they come back and love you more today then they did yesterday...

Merry Christmas everyone...have a great time and enjoy your children because its all about them and your love.....


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l have a friend who uses skype and he says it great...he says he uses a regular phone and can still make the calls. When he calls me you wouldnt even know he is using skype. He says its easy to hook up, nothing really to it and he has been using it for 3 years now and wouldnt go back to anything else.
l dont need a long distance carrier..have cable here and cable phone so l get all the long distance anywhere in canada and the US included in my cable and phone charges.
But it is a great program and one to look into if you have alot of friends that are long distance....treat yourself, its worth the money.


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There are alot of scammers on here and also on many other sites. l get alot of emails and messages asking me to add them to my yahoo messenger, the scammers seem to use a yahoo email and have a account on yahoo messenger. l was watching the local news one night and they had a man on there who had met a woman and after chatting with her for a few days he wondered if she was a scammer....he made a website called romancescammer.com. If you think you might have a scammer on the other end of a conversation go check it out and see if the name they use is on there...it helped me out a few times.
Had a guy that l had been talking to for 6 months, he had said all kinds of things, knew there was something not right but figured even if he was playing me it was ok because l wasnt buying it anyway...checked his name out and quess what, he was a scammer from Africa just looking for a way to canada.
This guy from the news states alot of the scammers are from there and use a site called myspace.com and will say anything they think you want to hear, they ask for money, they say they are sick and have been in the hospital, they have been married and are widows with usually one child and they love you from the moment they saw your pic. Be careful theres alot of these men and woman out there..


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Old fashioned manners are great. Just think about this for awhile, most people who are older are still happily married and quite content with who they are with. Just look around you at the older, wiser people who are walking hand in hand around you and then you will know that old fashioned manners are what the world should be doing now.
Its so nice to know that there are still men out there that know about these things and are willing to still do them.

Koodles to you and all the other respectful men out there that know how to treat a lady. But remember ladies we to can be that way also.


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Having a very quiet thanksgiving this year. Just me and my daughters, cooking a turkey, making a few pies and watching a movie. Just a down and out totally relaxing weekend.

l am thankful for my parents continued good health and also mine and my daughters. l am thankful that God has shown me that its ok to be alone and that when the right man comes along he will send me a sign to let me know. The last 11 years have been hard, raising my daughters on my own but l now know that life has something instore for me and that it will come soon enough, l just have to be patient and wait.

Happy Thanksgiving all my fellow CR's, may your life be filled with happiness and laughter and all that God wants you to have.


HAPPY TURKEY DAY TO ALL...: click here to read the entire thread »

Cathys Clown by the Everly Brothers....have never heard of this song but then l was only a few hours old....


THE NUMBER ONE SONG WHEN YOU WERE BORN.....: click here to read the entire thread »

Angel Eyes by Jeff Healy Band

thats if l had to pick just one.....


Most romantic song...: click here to read the entire thread »

Your so beautiful, wanna come back to my place and make the most beautifuliest baby in the world.

Sick but true and he thought l would fall for it


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Happy Thanksgivng to all my fellow CSers....have a great long weekend
Spending a quiet Weekend at home with my 2 daughters, having a big dinner with all the trimmings on monday after my oldest gets off work.
Maybe rent a movie and pop some popcorn.


Wishing all Canadians a very Happy Thanksgiving................: click here to read the entire thread »

l would have to say number 7 for myself also...l tend to get upset not mad, talk about it, maybe walk away for 10 - 15 minutes, think about it and then move on. lf its someone l am in a relationship with l tend to voice my opinion, clear the air and have a few minutes by myself and then come back and wanna make up.


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l somewhat agree here girls. l love myself and am confident in the fact that l am the way l am and if men dont like me the way l am, its ok l am confident enough and love myself enough to be alone.
l had always been on the average size (115 lbs) but after having my children and having a family history l gained a few pounds. l have had 3 surgeries in the abdominal area and having back problems havent been able to get the stomach area back in shape. Lets just say l have a stomach and its not a pretty one. Yes l am a larger so called woman but when men see the stomach they just arent interested.
l get so many compliments on here and a few other sites, saying pretty, sweet, sexy and other words but they can only see me from boobs up lol....if they saw the stomach part they would walk away and not look back...
so see l somewhat agree, men want woman with yes maybe curves and maybe skinny, never a woman who has a stomach...having kids is a hard job and men really dont see that...
l have been single for over 11 years and have only dated 2 men in that time and havent been on a date in 3 years....


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this would be great for a kids birthday party, they could make them and then decorate them, more cake than a cupcake and just think of the fun...thanks for sharing
plus l am a cake eater and my kids arent so making a 9x13 cake isnt a good thing for me, cause its just me eating it lol
this way l can have cake whenever and not worry about the calories of a whole cake...


DANGEROUS 5 MINUTE CHOCOLATE MUG CAKE : click here to read the entire thread »

summer was a great time for me, moved to a new place, finally have unpacked all the boxes and it feels like a home. Oldest daughter finally figured out that the guy she had been dating for over a year was trying to control her and said good bye. ls now dating a great guy, alot older than she is (she is 23 and he is 39) but its all good.
Youngest passed Math after having to take summer school with a 86.
Ok and now for me, reconnected with a high school crush and things are going good, finally a man who wants to get to know the real me and likes what he sees. Planning a trip out to BC maybe in the fall or winter to see him and reconnect some more.
Learned alot about muself and what l want in life, learned that not all people can be what they state they are and that family and friends are the greatest gift god can give us. Helped a single mom that had nothing move into a place they can call a home and gave them a few things that they needed to make there place a home. lt felt very good to be able to help them after all the help l got when l left my marriage....god provides and all is good....
hoping for a great autumn and winter and plan on having a great time with family and friends.


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sunny and warm, suppose to get thunderstorms today and tommorrow. Thats the way it always happens when the kids go back to school, sunny weekdays and rainy weekends...
still going to relax and enjoy being home with family.


SO COLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!: click here to read the entire thread »

welcome and join in the fun..a great bunch of people, always here to lend a listening ear or give a comment....laugh, live and love, thats my motto


Joining the CS Gang: click here to read the entire thread »

l agree only you know what you want and how this should go...if it doesnt feel right then you have made your decision. Life at times throws things at us real hard and we have to make a rational decision and it would seem to me that you already knew the answer before you asked....
yes things do seem strange to me too. A man who stays in a house for that many years and doesnt leave...l would be wondering, does he still care for her and just tells you he doesnt. Does he really sleep in another room, no sexual contact at all....l dont know....
All l know is you have to listen to your heart and if you do, the answers will come and they will come easily....sounds like you may have made a good decision and if and when he is ready he will leave the house and then let him be on his own for awhile, be friends and see what happens...he has to learn to be on his own and run his own life before he can be in someone elses....



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Hug me tight: l met a man who was in the same kind of relationship with his ex. They lived in the same house but didnt share a bed or room. They were in the same house together for their child.
He lived there for 6 months before he finally moved out and got his own place. We met and we were together from that day on but l am sad to say it never worked out. lt had nothing to do with the fact that he lived with his ex. We dated for a year and it was all good.
Mine worked out to be what he said it was and l trusted in him and that what he was telling me was true.
The only problem l had well he was living there was l could never call him because he didnt want my number on the phone and didnt want his ex to know he was dating someone. He thought that if she knew he was dating me it would do nothing but cause problems for him living there, so we kept it a secret and he would call me when he wanted to reach me. We didnt spend alot of time during that six month span but we talked online and he called at least once a day to check in.
All l can say is take the chance if you truly believe that he is separated and only liing there for the sake of his kids...ya never know he might just be that person.....

good luck and hope all your wishes and dreams come true.....


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