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A serious debilitating injury - I've busted my knee before in a sports related injury and I could'nt walk properly for almost a year and that sucked! There's nothing quite as bad as having something you take for granted suddenly being taking away from you...


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South Africa by far!!! The police head commisioner is up on corruption charges, women get assaulted by police for reporting a rape, you get asked for bribes when they stop you for driving too fast - the list goes on...


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I don't think there's anything good about being single, its just better than being in the wrong relationship - that's all....


What is the BEST thing about being Single???: click here to read the entire thread »

Maybe it's cause they don't trust handsome men???

I would find it easier to trust an average looking girl than a real stunner!!!


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ha ha! I'm loving these results so far! The one thing I already know about women is they never tell you exactly what they like so it will always remain a mystery...

The classic example is the girl who says she likes a sensitive guy and the jumps into bed with the dominant and controlling alpha-male!


WOMEN POLL.. Which kind of Men are u interested in: click here to read the entire thread »

Yeah I don't believe many women actually get rejected by men in these ways... Women are by far more likely to reject us men than the other way around! Us men know that it's hard to find a good women and when we do we try our best to keep them


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I often get the urge to buy toys I always wanted, but never had as a kid...


second childhoods: click here to read the entire thread »

Men never really grow up - they just get to the point where they start buying their own toys and they get more expensive as the time goes by!


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Leaving my home country was a very tough decision to make. You hardly ever re-locate permanently without making serious considerations!

I guess I was weighing up my future prospects in my home country versus the new "promised land". Then I also felt like I needed a change of scenery, they say a change is as good as a holiday...


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It really depends on my mood, but if I was forced to choose I'd go with friends - better to have them and not want them then want them and not have them!!!


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I agree, intangibles are the hardest to achieve and the most rewarding once you have them!

Unfortunately we are raised in a materialistic society so that's what people tend to strive for! The celebrity culture has a lot to do with it too...


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I hate the idea of wearing a condom more than actually wearing it! Sex was meant to be had naturally so I think the idea of having the barrier can give you a mental block more than the reduced sensation. Infact I've had some great sex before with condoms and some crap sex without so its all relative in the end.

One thing condoms are good for is making it last longer especially if ur inclined to be in a hurry lol!



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Well 50 is a long way off for me, but I'd definitely say it is more important for me now than when I first experienced it! We all have biological clocks that tick reminding us that every year that passes is a year less that's left for having good sex lol!

I don't believe there's a guy on this planet who will die thinking to himself "I think I had too much sex"!!!


Is sex more, or less important to you as you get older?: click here to read the entire thread »

Call men selfish for being apprehensive about getting involved with a woman with kids, but you have to look at their life situation as well and reallise just how much it impacts on their lives too.

As a young single guy I think the following makes me uneasy about a girl with kids:

You know she's gonna have far less free time especially if her kids are young, you also know their's gonna be a biological father in the background! Then there's the issue of kids not accepting you as the 'new guy' in their mummy's life....

Call it selfish if you like but that's how I fear it is.
But in the same breath, if I really liked her and she liked me too, I'm sure I'd learn to accept everything that comes with the package;)


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Granted there are "too many men and not enough time" - one could also accurately claim that while perfect men don't exist there are still good men almost everywhere! I'd like to think the same goes for good women! But could you please find me a good woman who's not looking for a perfect man???



"Time wasters": click here to read the entire thread »

Thanks for your advice trulymadlydeeply! Only problem I have with telling a girl that I like her is that being in the 21st century girls here in Ireland have egos as big as any man's could be so I'm kinds weary of massaging them lol!!!
I'd prefer it if good old flirting could just take its course and let things develop naturally;)


"Time wasters": click here to read the entire thread »

From my personal experience:

Irish girls
In public 1
At the pub 7
In general 6
In bed 10!

English girls
In public 2
At the pub 5
In general 6
In bed 9

American girls
In public 8
At the pub 10
In general 9
In bed 9

South African girls
In public 7
At the pub 8
In general 8
In bed 10!

Btw I'm south african*


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I agree with you there trulymadlydeeply, I don't expect a girl to burst out with all her intentions in the first message! But what gets to me is if ur on the 20th message or so and I still have to hear about how she got so pissed last night while on the lash that she's (now clearly) looking for sympathy from a guy she has no intention of ever meeting...


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I dunno, this is quite a controversial subject. I do think that women have slightly more bargaining power when it comes to sex and dating though!

Throughout history men have always been on the demand side with women being on the supply side of the "sex & dating market" while this may shift a bit to the other side as we grow older it spends the majority of its time on the one side...

But I think men make up for this deficit in other areas like being more influential in business etc.

The big question is who are happier???


How many of you men think women are superior to you?: click here to read the entire thread »

Just wandering what constitutes this? I've seen in so many women's profiles that they are not interested in "time wasters"

I've also noticed that an awefull lot of women that email me prefer to talk about their plans for the weekend involving their own friends or doing their own stuff than showing any interest in meeting up or even getting to know me better.

I sort of wander if those who complain about "time wasters" might not be showing a bit of double standards here...


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