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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 3:15 PM CST

riyablossom wrote:

hmm we dont have a law here anything remotely close to that but i do agree when the child himself or herself isnt mature enough to think and decide .. having the law on their side isnt always very positive.

Even today my brothers ( both teens now ) would never think of calling names to either parents well even me. I cant imagine my children doing that either. It will have to stop right then.

Exactly.. it's not always helpful.

Some years ago.. at a BIG meeting..

it was decided (not BY me) that it was ME that needed protecting.

The adult in the family.. HELLO?!?

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 3:12 PM CST

Oo one more day of CS..

But WOOOHOOOO for your new life together!

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 3:06 PM CST

cardsfan24 wrote:

the end

Yeah..

I DO have PMT too..

this being a sore subject to me at the best of times..

so now is a good time for me to get off the thread.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 3:02 PM CST

and no I don't smack my children..
But believe me..

knowing what I know now.. had I had my time over with them..

yes I WOULD have..

and stopped it before it started.

and don't even TRY to tell me the Smacking leads to smacking crap..

I DO know what I should have done and how I should have handled this differently.

Part of my problem was/is always being such a 'soft touch' a walk over.

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

But I don't want to talk about this.

::shuts up:::

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 2:59 PM CST

I also have PMT

Oo ... which is obviously WHY I said I would defend narrow minded comments.. instead of challenge.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 2:57 PM CST

kissmedeeply wrote:

Yes we raise them as best we can...

but when the law came out and said you cannot spank ur
child on the bum bum...or anything else..

Well that is what they use on me..

If you spank me i will call the police..

I said go ahead..i will help pack ur bags...

hahaah yeah..

It makes me laugh too..

I can see WHY there is that law..

BUT!!!!!

Does it mean.. that as parent you have to put up with verbal physical (and sometimes mental) abuse

from your child.. ???

That they can do and say anything they want.. with them safe in the knowledge that they have the law protecting them and the threat of a phone call.

Believe me.. I could write a BOOK about this subject.. It is something I have lived with for 6 yrs..

and I could go into a HUGE amount of detail here.. but I don't want to talk about it really.

But believe me.. I am ready to defend any narrow minded comments.. because I DO know very very well about this kind of thing.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 2:50 PM CST

kissmedeeply wrote:

I have to disagree with you on this one...love..

but i raise my 2 lovely boys to respect people and not to disrespect
in any way...

but when teens age hits it gets worse...

My 18 year old son doesnt hit..but he raises his voice and call me names...

Doesnt have to do with the way some of us raise them...

Its hormones and like PMS..its takes it toll...

Sometimes you just cant help

hahah.. It always amazes me that so many teenagers actually MAKE it to adult hood..

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 2:48 PM CST

Once day (or bath).. and twice a day usually in the summer.
When I get up.. and before I go to bed.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 2:45 PM CST

omurchu2 wrote:

like that

hahaha.. yeah.. like that.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 2:45 PM CST

riyablossom wrote:

really ?? i thought this was alarming enough .. ohh ..

Its basically a deficient family support system and parenting i think.

Not from me and my family members..

This has been the knock on effect of what happened while I was still married. What was seen observed learned from.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 2:43 PM CST

Claayer wrote:

I have been in this situation for many years.. As you probably know I am a single mum.. I agree with what you are saying about raising children with consistency etc.. But consistency is not always possible in some relationships where children are being raised.

I find it hard to think it would happen much in a two parent stable upbringing.

Ofh I didn't explain that very well..

I meant... If the children spent most of their growing formative years in a VERY inconsistent upbringing.. (with two parents)

then these are sometimes the after effects.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 2:41 PM CST

dammit it STILL cant do that quotey thing..

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 2:40 PM CST

mylifewithu wrote:

If parents parented firmly and consistantly from the time the child was small they wouldn't have had those problems. The children would have had respect for the parents more, to not have treated parents that way.

mylifewithu wrote:

If parents parented firmly and consistantly from the time the child was small they wouldn't have had those problems. The children would have had respect for the parents more, to not have treated parents that way.

I have been in this situation for many years.. As you probably know I am a single mum.. I agree with what you are saying about raising children with consistency etc..

But consistency is not always possible in some relationships where children are being raised.

I find it hard to think it would happen much in a two parent stable upbringing.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 2:39 PM CST

riyablossom wrote:

I think this makes it better presented.

Welcome to my world

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 10:46 AM CST

Hey buddy! long time no see

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 2:27 AM CST

gman1973 wrote:

I hope everyone knows that I was just screwing around and I'm normal lol. Well, normal is a point of view. I don't even like candy.

well I thought it was vereeee funny

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Oct 1, 2008, 2:26 AM CST

Dusty45 wrote:

Yes. The abstractness and magnatude is so infintesmally large that
it is next to impossible to wrap my mind around it. There must be
Love -part and parcel with the energy and information identified with
Cause. I believe Jesus understood and utilized these powers.

Beautiful new piccy Dusty!

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Sep 30, 2008, 8:32 PM CST

Dknew wrote:

Come now my cookie muncher

Phew!!!.. thank gawwwd you said COOKIE!

Im off to bed.. night night..

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Sep 30, 2008, 8:30 PM CST

riyablossom wrote:

Goodnight Sweetheart ..

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Sep 30, 2008, 8:30 PM CST

riyablossom wrote:

for all you know they left the 3 of us here ...

THANKFULLY!... ahahah!

I don't want to see the 2 inch wonder anyway..

::grabs glass slippers and clip clops off to bed::::

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