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I just wanted to be supportive.....nothing more, nothing less.....I know what its like to feel scared and need some support
I know what you are going through. I went through it over 15 years ago.
The father didn't want to know cause she was not a boy to carry on the family name.
We ad an affair for over 1 year. That is another story.
If he knew I lived in Canada he would be here.
The worst part is she has been asking about him in the last few years. All I tell her is where he is but that I doubted he is still there after all this time.
I gave her a picture of him and the last address I had. Now all she needs is a passport & money for a ticket and loads of luck. She knows he didn't want her and why.
It is the later years that get hard. I wish you luck but you are probably better off without him in the baby's life.That is my opinion.
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