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Racism , is it me or the enviroment?
i live in german, my daughters are german, am african , i live there by option, me cause i wanted to know europe and study more.the thing is that this country does have so many multicultural scenarios and people but still feels that its a wrong place to be. I find it very confusing for a society that has so many variety for the last decade or more , but the germans still look at foreign people regardless from where as sthg strange, specially if one is anything but caucasian, thats what one feels when one is in the street. in a 21 centuary !!!! my dauhghters are germans cause they were born in german but theres always this response as a different child, children in the streets or at the playground look at my children diferent and sometimes do comment on the skin coulor, wich means that the parents are not changing whatever they are saying at home or say that its not rigth to adress other people as diferent in those terms.
when i decided to come here i was so excited to be going to a world of so much thecnology and a country of advanced ways of making life practical, sthg new as i always wanted. then i realized that its only a development in material matters, the personal matters as people , as human to human hasnt change, theyy still kind of in the past . sooo is it me beeing to aware of this social complex or some parts of the world unfortunaly still have big issues with racism??
patricia sad? Come on, that's not a nice nick
You know when ppl do think bad about you? When they don't show up, you should go away with it.
Most of the countries feel much more comfortable when we, the immigrants do integrate.Keep your culture but be as much german as you can, if you want to leave there and be seen as one of them.
There are some nationalities that after generations, living in the receptor country don't speak the language properly...they just stick together in a very close community. This is wrong.
There are also those who simply love living from the social security and all the sort of benefits they might get, without moving their arse- the parasits. This is also wrong.
Maybe because my education is in Law, i actually know what are my rights and i go for them.
You can't realy change mentalities yourself but understand them in order to have it all on your favour.
In most Europe there is distinction among africans, you have the morroquins, the nigerians, the ghanas, etc. Not a lot of black/white people even if you are indian. You could have it worse.
The people that still look to races, as you said are not developed. Try to avoid these people just like you wouldn't want to hang around with a very stupid, narrow minded person.
See what you deserve...and make sure you deserve it!
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