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sassysuzy: What I'm trying to say is how do you get a gut feeling when you have nothing to go on? They get to read stuff about us and look at our pics, why not offer us the same courtesy?

And don't you just hate guys who ask what you're wearing......... er hello!!

sweetowen: I met a really nice guy a little over a month ago. We've talked on the phone, texted, IMed, & emalied several times. He's even traveled quite a distance twice to come see me. I enjoy talking to him & have fun with him. However, the feeling's just not there for him. How do I tell him this without making him angry? He's told me several times that he really likes me. And I want to like him because he's so nice. But if I'm not feeling it, there's not much I can do about it. I can't force myself to feel something that doesn't exist. What can I do?

KHD100: Summer horoscopes

Aquarius (Jan. 20 – Feb. 18)This is a very exciting time because lucky Jupiter is in your sign all year — a major bonus! It brings you good fortune and opportunities and attracts powerful people to you; it also greases the wheels and makes life easier. This relative ease boosts your confidence — in both yourself and your future. (It’s the opposite of defeat.) You’re feeling empowered! At the turn of the millennium, you were establishing your home base, but then increased responsibilities with children, sports and romance made you reassess things. Around 2005/2006, partnerships and close relationships were stressed; some even ended. This is why you’ve had to get by on less recently. (Partners have either left or are changing jobs and the like.) Nevertheless, since 2005 you’ve been progressing toward your ultimate goal, which will be achieved by 2013/2014. (How sweet it is!) But right now, you must continue to prove that you’re in dependent enough to make it on your own. (And who is more independent than you?) Serious travel or further education and training in the next few years will prepare and enrich you for that sought after career peak about three or four years down the road. Maintain your course!
Mantra “Day by day, I’m getting closer to what I want.”
Summer anthem The Aquarian will love chilling out to Swan Lake’s moody epic track “Spanish Gold, 2044.”

Pisces (Feb. 19 – March 20)Life hasn’t been easy lately with stern Saturn sitting opposite your sign. The good news is that it will be gone by late October and won’t return until 2036. Around 2003/2004, you were asking big questions about your future. And from 2005 until 2007/2008, you worked hard to show others what you could do. In 2007, you found the courage to
set grander goals. Now, you’re on the brink of a major change. You also might have to get by on less because you won’t have the support of others. However, Jupiter will enter your sign in five months, attracting wealth, good luck, opportunities and important people to you.
Mantra “My independence makes me strong.”
Summer anthem Chad VanGaalen’s earnest “Willow Tree” is a perfect match for shy Pisces.

Aries (March 21 – April 19)Some years are landmarks, and this is one of them. Around 1989/1990, you succeeded at something that was important to you. After giving up a lot in the mid-’90s, you set off on a new journey, which resulted in the discovery of who you really are today. Since 1996, you’ve slaved behind the scenes. Now, you’re ready to be centre stage, where you’ll stay for the next 15 years! The only catch: It could threaten partnerships and close friendships. Nevertheless, when you step into the spotlight, there’s no going back.
Mantra “I’m preparing for my debut.”
Summer anthem The retro-pop of Hot Panda’s “Cold Hands/Chapped Lips” will put a spring in Aries’ cheery step.

SeriouslyFun: Let's say you meet a guy online, send some emails, talk on the phone and then set a date.

Near the end of the conversation, the guy tells you that he has flown 3/4's of the way across the country to spend time with someone he is quite taken with, but would never move there.

Further, he tells you that the woman and he have an understanding that they both can date and it will end between them once one of them finds a partner that is closer by.

The question is.... would you date this guy?

thewall2: I don't.............I dated a single woman once,and helped support her kid that the father didn't.

sweetowen: Well, I'll try to walk in to my date with the utmost confidence tomorrow.