Im 49 years old. Im your standard skinny white middle class man. I was once deemed "the tall skinny ugly kid with glasses". Ive never been photogenic, never been a "pretty man". You wont find any sexy shirtless pics of me around. Thats the facts. Ive accepted it. I still like me.
God cursed me with a lot, poor eyes, poor teeth, and no matter how I tried I never weighted much. I could bulk up and get pretty solid but even after years in a gym never gained mass. Some things just were never meant to be. So lets get past that.
I was recently told Ive got a heart of gold. Im a pretty damn good guy. I keep a job, I work hard at it and Im pretty good at it. I have primary custody of my two kids. I have given up everything for my kids and everything I do is for my kids. I quit drinking some 20 years ago. I never liked drugs. Im working at quitting smoking.
Im as honest as I can be with everyone. Im romantic and sensitive. Though some may percieve this thread differantly, Im not desperate or clingy. I dont demand anything from anyone. Im happy with e-mail friends, phone friends, and eventually a romantic relationship. Thats why I came here. Im not looking to make friends, Im not looking to have sex with every woman who says Hi to me, but I am looking for women to start a relationship with.
Im a decent guy. God as well as a few curses, he also gave me a few gifts. Im a great artist. Im really good at what I do for a living. Im good in bed too. Ive had more compiments than Ive ever heard anything bad....well except early on when I was learning, but I did learn...sad thing is few will get past the picture. Few women on this or any single site will look beyond the picture and "take a chance" to find out who I am or what Im really like.
Ill be honest here too, might as well. I love women, big women, little women, tall women, skinny women, I love them all. Yes ive been in relationships with all kinds. Point of it is. I prefer women built a little closer to me. I dont want to be with a woman who is bigger than me. Thats the honest truth. Call it a flaw, call it shallow, its still the truth. Ill e-chat with anyone and Ill enjoy it and hope you will too, but I wont persue much with the bigger girls.
I married a young bride and had children late. Most women think Im either a freak and WAY too old for them, or they think Im looking for a mother for my kids. Women my age have raised thier kids and arent interested in "raising" more. So lets get it on the table now. Im NOT looking for a mother for my kids. They have one. Shes wacky but still thier mother. Im not looking for a mother for me. I have one, shes wacky but still mom. Im on this site for ME to find ME a friend/parenter/lover. Kids are part of the deal but not my focus. If you cant understand that or accept it then sorry.
Age has never been a factor in my life. My ex is 15 years younger than me. Ive known and enjoyed women younger than me and women older than me. I have no preferance to age, each has thier good and bad, but I enjoy it all.
I guess the entire premis of this stupid post is...
Why wont women read these things. Why wont women take a chance and attempt to get to know a guy who seems "maybe a little interesting". Are we guys so spooky that women on these sites wont even bother or are all the women looking for that "Prince charming". Fabulous looks, stunning bod, and just sweep you off your feet. If so you are in for a few let downs.
I e-mail and flower a few women now and then. I get no responces. No sorry your just too butt ugly, sorry Im not looking anymore...Whyis that?
Somewhere theres a decent woman willing to take a chance and maybe get to know the skinny ugly guy...go ahead take a shot....
Lunch is over,
Be well
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