Been there/done that. I think of my late husband often and at holiday times of the year like now, I'm prone to burst into tears for no reason except remembering him even though he passed 6 years ago next month. But, I made my husband a promise to go find someone new and get on with life. Six months after he died when I could finally get through a day without tears, I went on a match dating site and began to date. It was hard and I did feel like I was cheating, but I did it as it was my last promise to him. The only thing you can do is still be a friend to her. Make sure she knows that you aren't trying to replace her husband, just to be a part of her future life which doesn't include him now, except as a happy memory. She is just not prepared for any physical part of a relationship and how long it will take her to get over that, is different for every person. Best thing you can do is be patient and keep the lines of communication with her open. Good luck....
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