I`ve been there, done that, and did for 13 years.
If its as bad as you say, "try", its hard to forget......
Its real sad, makes you feel like you can´t help...
Its NOT your fault, always remember this, it is a very serious illness...to my mind, its slow Suicide...and it hurts me to say this because I am talking about the Father of my child, who by the way hasnt seen or spoken to in 10 years...due to his umpteen Rehabs etc etc...
I finally decided it was time to think of myself and my Daughter, I cannot do anymore...they ALWAYS Relapse, sooner or later...
Sorry for the bad news, but since Ive been there...I feel bad for you!
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