onegoodguy1959: Having been down this road before, here is my advice.
Rent out one home and live in the other. That way you can either kick him out or go back home if things don't work out. DO NOT open a joint checking account. Do not make any joint purchases or sign any joint leases.
This may sound cynical, but I learned the hard, and very expensive, way.
Hope evreything works out for you.
GREAT ADVICE, THANKS
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