JB, I think everything I wanted to say while reading through your post has been said by others here. I will say that I've been in a similar situation when dating. He's since married this other woman and started contacting me wanting to see me again 2 months after the wedding. In fact, it's been 5 years and I heard from him again as recently as a few months ago. These kinds of men think they're invinsible and irresistable. I'm happy to say that I also learned from that situation.
I do want to say that I did not need to read your post in this thread to know what kind of person you are. You are a person of worth and intelligence, beauty inside and out, fairness and integrity.
I'm sorry that you felt the need to explain in any way. Most of us here, I feel, do not unfairly judge. And you should never feel the need to explain to those who do, even though this thread was not directed at any of those people who may have been judging you.
I'm just glad you decided to stay. I value your friendship here.
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