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yes I agree... but the question is why? I ask myself, and the only thing i can come up with, is fear.


polyamory vs monogamy : click here to read the entire thread »

I've recently been reading Osho's "being in love", and he makes an interesting point for polyamory, and promoting the idea of extra-marital affairs- being good for a relationship. While I see a certain logic in his reasoning, I personally can't envision the idea for myself- well not that I'm married, or ever have been- I even find it slightly disturbing. Perhaps its my own insecurity that can't allow me to accept the idea. For me, if a loved one were to love another man, I'd go a bit crazy with jealousy, and I'd probably end it right there- and be depressed for months.
Are there any thoughts on the idea? If anybody is unfamiliar with Osho, google him, and polyamory- (I may be spelling that incorrectly)
My current partner thinks its possible to be in-love with 2 people simultaneously. I personally don't believe that to be possible.

by the way, hope everyone had a nice summer!


polyamory vs monogamy : click here to read the entire thread »

I have yet to meet a woman with a sense of direction. Mostly women seem confused. But when there is a special woman in your life....She makes your life very much different.


Male and Females. : click here to read the entire thread »

that makes me sweat. Making a really dumb comment, and then realizing it was...totally, ridiculously stupid.


What makes you.....: click here to read the entire thread »

being shy?




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hey breezee

could be the weirdness is actually fear... fear of pain or sadness.
somehow you correlate your current situation with difficulty maybe. I understand you completely. I've currently toppled into a relationship myself...and for the first time, maybe ever, the feelings I have are totally different from anything I've experienced. The only thing is, I suffered a horrible break-up about 2+ years ago now, that took me nearly that long to get over...it was the most difficult thing I'd ever experienced. The memory of that, and the idea that it could end in the same manner causes me similar feelings to what you may be going through. I have to fight pessimism and allow myself to enjoy the beautiful romantic situation I'm in...which is what I so wanted. Often, when we get weird, I think its related to some past pain... But love like anything, is a risk...we have to jump in and give the most of ourselves without fear...though some reservation is perhaps beneficial to the relationship. When I find myself getting weird, I try to ignore or fight the feeling, and turn it positive. Its worked so far, but part of me still fears the pain, and I often find myself fighting with the fact that I'm totally in love. There I go...I admit it...I'm in Love, damn it!



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budo taijutsu? that count?


Anyone do Karate?: click here to read the entire thread »

yeah I´m a fish eater too, and I have pisces in my chart. I could actually eat my own fish brothers! it makes me cry. But good to meet you too!


What Sign Are You?: click here to read the entire thread »

it shows the more emotional side of a person. they way they treat humanity. There is a great site that does free compatibility of venus signs. It seems that my ideal match (if I remember correctly is venus in Scorpio)


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check out that ezine article I mentioned. I tend to agree. If you view love as a ¨feeling¨ then its bound to wane. thats my idea. Love has to be more than a feeling.



Ok, lets get serious folks. What is love? Is it a feeling? Or...is it a decision/action?: click here to read the entire thread »

taurus man: they say that taureans are reliable, earthy, grass eating folk, whereas the pisceas are gentle dreamers, poets, and artistic types...sensitive and all. You may not prefer seafood...respect for your oceanic brethren. which one sounds like you?


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yeah, we gemini folk are pretty cool. Always coming up with quirky off the wall things to say..


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in truth, I don´t think you can put too much weight in the sun sign...yes its important, however I think the venus aspect, and the ascendant are more important. For example, yes in many ways I´m capricorn,but I feel like my personality is much more in line with the fact that my Venus is in Pisces. By the way, I don´t know many fun loving aries... but hey...I´m sure they exist (somewhere)


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hey whats wrong with a gemini ascendant...?


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capricorn sun, cancer moon, gemini ascendant, and venus in Pisces...for those in the astrololgical know.


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fair enough. but feelings change day to day. You may be in love- or feeling in love one day- the next day feel a bit different. So if our actions constantly relied on our feelings....thats a difficult one.


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For further info google, ¨the myth of love¨. there is an Ezine article that I found interesting. On par with
the Road less travelled.

I ask the question, because, I find that my feelings change with whatever seems to be happening with my body, or chemical changes in my brain,, or whatever. Hence, If love were merely a feeling, it couldn´t possibly exist for a lifetime. It has to be ones dedication to commitment, right?


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hey, I can be light and airy too! gotta give me a little time to think of something though.


IT`S TIME TO RE-INTRODUCE YOURSELVES .....: click here to read the entire thread »

I don´t think this is a fair statement to make, by the way, seeing as you don´t know me. I do attempt to view people without preconcieved notions, or images. However, I´m saying that the idea of romantic love, and indeed most kinds of love in general, seem to me selfish. I do not say that I don´t believe in love. I do believe in love. But love without attachment seems to exclude romantic love, and I suppose I find that difficult to deal with.




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