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Well assuming I personally have got all those six years left I would go out and do all the things I,ve been afraid to do in the past....sex in a wetsuit, drugs,etc....to complement the beer,chips,gravy,mucky mags and cheap tarts I have so far concentrated on.


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Except of course for "Builders Bum "


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eh up Lago me ole mucker. Just been very busy with other life stuff, summer an all that. Not in for long, but will try to be more regular (taking exlax )


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Once saw a female singer wearing trousers with a trouser belt too long and the excess dangling down in front of her. Somebody told me that was penis envy, that is to say she wanted one.

Do any of you ladies really want your own penis ? or is this just another load of old codswallop ?


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.....the activity of trying to control people with a look (a gaze, a glance...whatever).

The question is, was Freud talking a right load of old bollocks or......!

Do you try to control people by looking at them in a certain way, or are you controlled by the look of others ?

And another thing....the objectification of women and the beautification of same (not beautification in the religeous sense,ok?).

We are all unique,self thinking individuals are we not ? Or are we all pre-programmed (genetically, hormonally, culturally etc) to do what some body else, or others want us to do.

Oh yes I,m back.


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Of course " love" exists, as an illusion which we use to get what we want (individually, culturally, economically, materialistically.....etc,etc)

A man /woman only loves another as long as their is some sort of payoff (even if it,s only good sex) When that payoff is no longer present then that person will piss off sharp. End of.


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Well said Smokey, I agree with you totally. Love does not exist,it is a manipulative illusion. Of course parental love exists, but that is all.


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It is true Cuspo, however it usually comes from somebody who has given all and been kicked in the goolies in return. What one needs to do is to get in touch with the inner twat in oneself. As dear old Jacko would put it,don,t get angry,get even.

People can only hurt you if you let them. However,when one has made a very large emotional investment and gets totally ripped off it can be hard to move on, even when you know it makes sense.

It,s very easy to issue forth with platitudes,however,if a beautiful woman gets you to upsticks from Oz,to come and live over here, gets you to put everything you have ever worked for in her name,then kicks you out destitute on the streets whilst she lives the high life on her ill gotten gains with another man, you might think it a little unkind, or insensitive for me to say, stop bitchin and being so self centred and move on.

Having said all that, we do need to keep trying to put it all behind us. But,whilst I agree with you,I also think we have to understand where somebody might be coming from. We would not dream of telling a woman who has been brutally raped to stop being so self centred and get on with it.


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Wow, last night had a dream that my first ex was trying to push me off a tow path into a fast flowing river ! Eventually she succeeded. I remember going under the water and eventually scrambling to the bank where my second ex was waiting, she put the sole of her foot on my face and pushed me back undser the water. I swear this is all true. Can,t say what happened next as I woke up soaking wet with sweat.


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Not much


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Richard Pryor is one of the funniest guys,black or white. The others aren,t even half way funny. JMO


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Thankyou Flor. See you both very soon.


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Don,t just think about it Smokey, go see em, they are lovely people,as indeed I am sure you are.


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You,re next, or rather Malta. When ? Ahhhhh....maybe I,ll just drop in un-announced.


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I just don,t bother opening mine, I don,t need it spelling out that I,ve spent more than I have got.


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ps. What I realised is that communicating with people here is a little like being presented with a nail cutting and thinking you know that person well. What we all see here is the tip of the iceberg and no more. I ,m very glad that I got to meet the entire mountain.


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one day we shall drink to your patience with yourself.


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Went to see a couple of CS Members over here in Spain. First time I,ve met anybody from CS. Found two very articulate, intelligent, sensitive, artisic people whose gregariousness was equalled by their wonderful hospitality.

I am talking,of course, about Flor and Gongman. It was a longish trip, but one more than well worth the effort. Stayed overnight and ate and drank well and talked into the wee small hours.

Gongman is a musician of quite rare ability, he doesn,t just play instruments, he IS an instrument. Listening to his oral overtones was quite amazing. As for the gongs !!!!!!

Flor, what can I say ? We all know she is a great writer, but she is also a fine artist with equally fine human insight and a great sense of humour.

However,above all this what I found was two really great,decent human beings, both with a heart as big as a bucket.

Flor, Gongman, thankyou ever so much for everything. My young son and I are grateful for your kindness and your friendship. Hugs and kisses to you both.




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Retail therapy is always good,til you get buyers remorse.


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Hey Awesome, didn,t mean to be offensive, just joking. A Spaniard speaking English with a Scottish accent


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