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As of 2 pm today, I'm a free person again!


I just got back from court. It was painless and now my ex can get remarried!

Tomorrow, if he wants and if she's willing LOL



Isn't freedom wonderful??? !!!! YIPPEEEE

The reason i say SECOND date is because if you've decided to go out again...there was some spark or attraction or chemistry...call it what you will...but here you are on your second date now..getting to "know" each other more..what is the scariest (and i don't mean spooky here) thing they could say...

I have heard that each woman has a unique taste all to their own...is this true about men?

So...it seems to me that there are no good guys out there. I have looked everywhere, I'm not the most outgoing person in the world but I would like to be noticed once. I go to clubs, bars, coffee houses, and now i have moved online. I still can not seem to find a guy what should I do because i'm obviously doing something wrong.

I was just wondering where are all the, shall we say active but mature singles. I mean someone at least close to my age. I know I'm not the only "starting over" single in my age group. All I ever see are the young guys and girls. I was hoping this site would offer some interesting men, serious about building a solid lasting relationship. Looking for an adult with some semblience of the way men used to be. If there are any mature gentlemen that are looking to get to know a person and be a friend and let that kind of relationship build casually and comfortably, that's what I'm looking for. I don't mind having on line friends but if the distance is too far to meet then on line friends is all that can come of it. Don't get me wrong, we all need all the friends we can get. And I am happy to be one of them. If someone has been sitting back thinking the same thing, well drop me a line and lets talk.

Not sure if some of you remember me. I just came to this site last month and was posting in the forums quite a bit. I had some computer problems so was MIA for awhile. Sorry about that.

So how has everyone been? Good I hope. Things are good here. Only about 6 and a half more weeks till the baby is born. I can't wait. I am sooooo tired of being pregnant its not even funny. Other than that nothing new to report.

Just wanted to pop on and say hi and see whats been going on.

Tracy :o)

About a year ago we added a feature called Who’s Viewed Me. We thought it would be fun for you to know who has shown enough interest to read your profile and/or view your photo… even though they may not have taken the step to send a flower or message. It’s like going to a party and making eye contact from across the room, but not going over to talk to them yet. It’s also a kind of feedback… a tool to help you know if your profile is attracting attention. It was our goal to ‘mix things up a little’ and get things going between members that might not otherwise find each other.

For months we’ve received notes from members telling us they don’t like Who’s Viewed Me. In our never-ending-effort to make improvements to your online dating experience here, we removed the feature. Also, in terms of site performance, this is a ‘power robbing extra’ and why waste resources for something members don’t even like?

Now, however…. We are being flooded with requests to bring that feature back..

Ok.. Alright already… Which is it?? Yay or Nay??


--------------------------THIS IS AN UPDATE TO THIS THREAD----------------------:
We have brought this feature back to the site...
for more information, see the thread
'"Who's Viewed Me" feature - back by popular demand'
http://www.connectingsingles.com/Forums/dating-forum-posts-4153.htm