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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:09 PM CST

Some teacher may be watching....

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:09 PM CST

HJFinAZ wrote:

Personally. "I" like to cook..

, not .

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:08 PM CST

mrsmiles4444 wrote:

somebodies got to do the cooking.......

Personally. "I" like to cook..

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:07 PM CST

Baddabing66 wrote:

I don' know why this happens to me. Whenever I correspond with a lady whom I am inrested in meeting, I email her and her answer takes a little longer. On the other hand, I write to a lady whom I not intrested in having a relationship with her. She always answers back quickly.
It goes like this. I open my inbox, hoping to see an email from a lady whom I like. Instead the lady I dont like answers and that makes me angry.
Tell me, has that ever happen to you?

Then why waste time writing to ladies you don't like??

We "ALL" play OUR role..

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:05 PM CST

mrsmiles4444 wrote:

" as the thread turns"

And the pot is stirred...

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:03 PM CST

I have learned relationship types of arguments & issues (character defects), are like a game of tennis. "IF" the ball is hit to you, there is no game unless you hit the ball back.

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HJFinAZ
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Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:00 PM CST

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 12:59 PM CST

sweet1of2 wrote:

And his issues with me should have been adressed privatley as well. Not on a public forum

"I", didn't see any names mentioned until another posted they were the victim (volunteer).

But what the hell do I know, I am old and senile..

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 12:55 PM CST

Katine76again wrote:

Well I think it all depends on the people. Everyone has different reasons. Some may be because of low self esteem and past issues. Some could be because it is what they grown used to or grew up being in certain same situations etc...

I think we have to ask ourselves the most why we do the things we do and try to fix them.

I have been a sucker for attracting the same guys all the time. The sweet talkers who make you believe everything they say and of course bling at the time and didn't see their BS. But now I am more cautious and take the time to get to know someone really really well and I figure if the other person can't wait and can't respect my feelings on that then he is not the one for me. The one for me will be patient and understand me and not pressure me. Period!

We "ALL" have a certain amount of BS (checking around lips). We can be (and some are) overly cautious, living in a state of fear.

Personally. I much prefer to take the risk, I can always turn around and walk away.

"To love, is to risk not being loved in return."

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 12:42 PM CST

Everyday, I lift several powerful cups of coffee...

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 12:40 PM CST

In "my" case, "we always see in others, what we do not like in ourselves"..

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 12:36 PM CST

sweet1of2 wrote:

I don't care what anyone thinks. None of you know what I do and I was responding to HIM alone.

JMO... Private responses should be done "privately", not posted in international forums.....

"We step on the toes of others and they retaliate."

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 12:31 PM CST

cristina wrote:

we're staying in

Yep.... Gotta watch

the

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 10:37 AM CST

DadofDucks wrote:

Insanity is over rated. I thnk Im in need of some good old peace and quiet and a big helping of happiness with it....

Happiness=Inside Job.... (It was hard for "me" to learn this)...

Today, I enjoy my insanity..

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 10:28 AM CST

Miss ya!!!

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 10:24 AM CST

DadofDucks wrote:

No I dont think "they" do brother.
Think Ill stick closer to sanity for a while. Good to see you.

Well do not go overboard with the sanity thing now!

On p. 132 it states "we absolutely insist on enjoying life"..

I have a T-shirt, it states, "I do not suffer from insanity, I thrive on it"..

Some friends know me well..

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 10:18 AM CST

1. "Expectations" Tony, we have expectations. When we place expectations upon others, we set ourselves up for disappointment.

2. Some people cannot be honest, they so want to be "accepted" by others that they fabricate, stories, excuses, etc.

3. "MY" experience is (for me), it is better to simply turn around and walk away....

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 10:11 AM CST

Maybe "they" don't...

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 10:10 AM CST

NOTHING, absolutely nothing happens in Gods world by mistake, but "you" know that..

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HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 11:00 PM CST

Then I suppose it is wrong for kicking that old woman to the curb because she didn't vacuum & mop the floors, clean the toilets and clean ALL the windows inside & out.....SO what if it is 100 degrees out..

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