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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 15, 2007, 11:04 PM CST
Just tell him.


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 15, 2007, 11:01 PM CST
How about a life time of making good sex filled love (means I'm selfish & want it all)...lol


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 15, 2007, 12:08 AM CST
laugh cute


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 14, 2007, 11:55 PM CST
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Well, I am out of state now, and, hopefully he is in prison by now so he can't stalk anyone else.
Yeah cheering Good for you on the move.


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 14, 2007, 11:50 PM CST
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YOU GOT TO YELL LOUDER! THEY ARE SLEEPING!
No we're not...at least not yet...lol


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 14, 2007, 11:46 PM CST
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No thankfully. This was years ago.
I did however, see him a few years ago walking down the street where I was living in at the time.
He stared at me as I drove past him and tried not to look at him. I still felt the terror even though it had been many years. I looked in the rear view and he was staring right at us.
I was afraid for a while after that, but he never bothered us. I guess maybe it had been long enough and I had changed enough, he wasn't sure it was me. Or maybe he was busy stalking someone else
I'm hoping for you that he's found someone new to stalk.


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 14, 2007, 11:45 PM CST
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that's wild for sure...stakers are scary. my ex is crazy but she just wants to bury me financially, she can't manipulate me any other way anymore. she has done lots of F*d up things but I have and always will go forward.

I'm looking forward to next year. I get to put a stop to the wage assignment for child support (yep...I pay) in May. The stuff he's trying to get me to pay for I'm ignoring at my attorney's advice because he agrees with me that I shouldn't have to pay for something that I didn't have a say in. So the light in that there tunnel is gettin brighter grin


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 14, 2007, 11:42 PM CST
Happy B-day girls.dancing


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 14, 2007, 11:40 PM CST
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OMG, wow. Very sorry to hear that. That's a terrifying situation to be in :(
My ex was verbally/mentally abusive, but never hit me.

I did have a stalker ex boyfriend once though. He would follow me everywhere I went, hide in the bushes outside my house and watch me, sleep in the woods near my house to keep an eye on me.
He would confront me once in a while, and it always scared me, not knowing what he might do.

He finally caught me alone one night, surprised me, I had the window down in the car, he just walked up and jerked the keys out of the ignition. I was miles from anywhere, and he actually hit me. We got into a for real "fight" and I felt as though, if I did not fight back and get away from him somehow, he was going to kill me.

I really don't remember much of the actual fight as I guess I was just so frightened my mind blocked it out, but I did get to the car and manage to lock it and speed away.

I had a restraining order on him, and a few days later, he blocked my car in at the grocery store, ripped my license plate off my car with his hands, and threw it across the parking lot while screaming and yelling. He had a ballbat with him too, but did not do anything else at that time, as there was a large crowd in the parking lot.

He continued to stalk me however, and I ended up moving about 5 times over 2 years to ever get rid of him. The police could never catch him as he had no address on file.

My friends were afraid to be around me, even my own family :(

Yikes!! dropping jaw He hasn't been around recently I hope. Moving was probably the best thing you could've done.


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 14, 2007, 11:33 PM CST
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My Mum had an operation on my birthday one year, so I cancelled celerating. After that I always got my age wrong and told people I was a year less than i was, but I have caught up again now.

Does lieing to myself count? or is it merely delusional?
It's delusional..lol

I don't & haven't lied about my age...although my mind thinks I'm one age (younger) and there are times when my body says "oh no your not!!"...lol


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 14, 2007, 11:30 PM CST
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oh God that sounds so much like what I went through too.
17 yrs...the last 4 yrs...

you have my best wishes dear, really.

Yeah, it's usually not talked about so you never know that there are other people who have gone through or are currently going through the same thing. Same way with divorces...you always think someone else's went so smoothly, until you get to talking with them & find out it was just as bad or worse than your own.


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 14, 2007, 11:28 PM CST
How about candy cigarettes? (Non smoker speakin) *duckin out quickly*


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 14, 2007, 11:20 PM CST
I can relate, although mine wasn't physical abuse, it was more mental & emotional abuse. I lived with it for 17 years and it was maybe the last 3 or 4 years of that 17 that it was dawning on me what was happening. My parents really didn't know what was happening until I finally told them. The abuse came in the form of constantly tearing down my self esteem...nothing I ever did was good enough...I didn't dress nice enough...my suggestions weren't possible...and in fact was basically told to not talk to anyone when he was required to bring me to a business "social" function because he didn't want me to embarass him.

Even though I've been divorced for 10 years, he's still a control freak. Constantly trying to harass me with different issues and making decisions unilaterally and then expecting me to pay for half the cost. The whole divorce process was a total self esteem grinder. I ended up feeling more worthless and used. That feeling has a tendency to creep back in, especially when I think about my boys & that their dad is doing the same thing to them (but no one can see it except for me & my parents). But I work on it every day. It's certainly better now than it was 10 years ago...and even better than it was back in 2005. I get a mixture of positive & constructive criticism at work...and even with the constructive I'm told I'm doing a good job, so there's some esteem boosting there. The rest of it, has to come from me...positive input from a partner certainly wouldn't hurt.

Guess the abuse snuck up on me since it wasn't physical. If it had been, things would've ended a whole lot sooner because I never would've put up with it (would've known it was happening)...where the other was so sneaky it took me awhile to catch on. It has caused me to keep my eyes more open from now on...not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing...lol Certainly has made me pickier, which has made it harder for me to find a partner.

So hang in there guirly. If it's absolutely necessary, you may need to change where you live so he can't find you again. I hope he ended up in jail for violating the restraining order.


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 13, 2007, 8:36 PM CST
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If I was a woman, and a guy would stand me up once on a date, he simply wouldn't get a chance to do it a second time....end of story...

That's about the way I handle it...lol


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 12, 2007, 8:46 PM CST
I prefer Evening Musk and Chanel #5....the one I really can't stand is White Diamonds...one of the teachers at my previous school used to douse herself with it to cover the cigarette smell...and I swear it smelled like someone had just sprayed Raid in the room...lol


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 12, 2007, 11:17 AM CST
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what they have written...
if they have hangups with smokers- chances are they are not willing to accept a person as they are.
if they have hangups on how much money they want you to make- chances are they they will eventually take you to the cleaners.
if they have hangups on how much education you have- they will probably treat you as if you are inferior.
you can learn a lot just by reading what and how a person writes their profile... but once in a while, you come across one who can actually express their heart in a way that shows how true and honest of a person they are... and those are the ones worth waiting for :).
I have a difficulty with the comment that a person isn't willing to accept a person as they are if we have a hangup about them smoking. They choose to smoke, I choose not to date a smoker. Doesn't mean that I'm not willing to accept a person as they are.

As far as "how much money"....I just want the guy to have a job. It'd be nice if he made more than I do, just to keep the inferiority complexes from taking over. As for "taking you to the cleaners"...I don't intend of having a 2nd divorce....one was enough for me thank you.

When I look at a guys profile...
1) picture
2) to see if they smoke or not (if they do...then I don't go any further...my choice)
3) relationship status (why are married or taken guys on here???)
4) What they've written

I've run across one guy and had a few conversations with him to find out that he's really pretty arrogant because he'd made a comment about me lowering myself because of the job position that someone held that I was interested in. I found that more discriminatory than my non-smoking preference.


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 12, 2007, 10:41 AM CST
Let's see, for Thanksgiving break I'll be spending the time finishing up the unpacking that started back in April. I have a cousin supposedly coming up on the 21st & she'll be staying with my parents, so I guess a few evenings will be spent over there.

For Christmas break (2 weeks) I have no clue what I'll be doing. More than likely spending it alone. Will probably end up over at my parents for Christmas Day...but I'm not shopping. I'm an only child so there aren't any siblings. My boys are grown & haven't had contact with me for several years....so unless I end up with a boyfriend by then I'll be like everyone else....alone. Just me & the cats.

I've got 2 spare rooms if anyone wants to come visit...lol


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 10, 2007, 5:52 PM CST
Just sent mine...think I'll send the site to my dad who's retired navy.


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 10, 2007, 5:32 PM CST
very mad <== kinda how I feel at times Eupho...lol


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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Nov 10, 2007, 5:24 PM CST
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If I "ONLY" had a hundred dollars? Geesh how much money are you used to men spending on you. I don't blow money on first impression dates, if I like her and we get along well then maybe we can dig into the pocketbook a bit... other than that, it's a cheeseburger and just hanging out.
Gee, I don't even get a cheeseburger. Lately I'm lucky if I get a hot chocolate. Last first date was dutch.


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