Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 11:26 PM CST
ptownff69 wrote:Ok, im new to dating since I was married for 17 yrs and now divorced. My problem is this. Women want to take it slow and get to know me but dont want any attachments. Im good with that. I guess the problem is when you are trying to get to know someone, that means conversation, dating, having fun with the woman so why do I feel like im being a bother. Especially after sex. Its like they change. The confution is this. Do they just want the sex and nothing else or am I being to personal and wanting to get to know them but to fast. Im confused. Im not a BSer and believe in being honest. Im no mind reader and cant know what is on their mind unless they say so.
Ok...when did you become me? I really want to know...lol I've recently been seeing a guy who's made the comment that it's going to take him time to figure out if we're a match & soul mates or not. I've basically agreed with him, but prefaced that with contact. You can take all the time in the world, but without contact it's not going to do you any good. It's like pulling teeth to get him to commit to any type of activity. Even this week, I wanted to try and get together before I head out of town for a week, but I haven't heard a peep from him....
And yet, the times when we are together he's very affectionate and appears to enjoy the time that we spend together.
So I'm just as confused as you are
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