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yes i agree . . dont know whats going on in hawaii but it sure aint happening here in nz . . . but then apparently we have a man drought here . . . so many more attractive women than men . . of all ages






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its not what u look on the out side......that counts..[/quote]but

oh hellll yes it is . . . call me shallow . . . but i have to find someone attractive on the outside or i'm just not going there.





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my belief is that if we want our partner to change something for us then all we can do is ask and as you say raina, if they care enough and want to make the change all well and good.

if not, then we have to ask ourselves 'do i love this person enough to live with them the way they are right now?'

i hear a lot of women say that their partners have so much potential . . "if only they would get their act together".

its futile to fall in love with 'potential'. you have to accept someone with all their faults . . if you cant then its time to let go and move on . . no matter how much you care about them.


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i broke up up with someone about 15 months ago . . . i miss them so much . . . but i think what i miss the most is laughing . . he used to make me laugh all the time . . he was really funny in a very dry way

and i think i miss that . .the laughter more than anything else . . even the sex . . which was damn good.

lets face it . . we can do most things for ourselves!!! but its kinda hard making ourselves laugh.






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at the risk of losing all credibility on here . . .i happen to know three different people, (all very sane and down to earth) who have seen "UFO's" recently. in fact just before i saw this thread i was thinking about starting one asking if anyone else had seen anything recently.





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hell i'm not . . . put me in front of a camera and i just love it . . .

look at me . . . look at me

the thing i wonder about is who has the bigger ego . . those who love it like me or those who run away and hide . .

so i may look like a dork . . make a fool of myself . . . hell if i do then i can have a good laugh at myself . .




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hmmmm . . this is an interesting one for me . . . i'm quite tall for a woman, 5'9" and for some reason short guys seem to be really attracted to me, and after falling in love with someone a long time ago who was only 5'4" and having a great relationship with him its made me kinda not too concerned with the outward appearances which i think is what puts a lot of women off going with someone shorter.

anyway since that first one i've actually gone out with several shorter guys.

now heres the really interesting bit . . invariably they have made much better lovers . . . short guys are so much better in bed. and i have a friend that says exactly the same thing.

and i think nicole kidman might know what i'm talking about too. . her men always seem to be shorter .






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[quote=Lionhearted1967][quote][huhanna/quote]Well...That is their tactic..."Fear Mongering".[/quote]

exactly!! . . . FEAR! the best way to control people . .


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[quote=kidatheart]

oh hell . . yes sorry darling . . .very remiss of me . . you definitely should be getting a vote if anyone should


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[quote=shenco22657]He and Cheney( or DICK) as I like to call him, have been scaring the crap out of me for 8 yrs. now. I cannot believe this country elected him once, BUT TWICE!!!!!!!?????.

yeah what the hell is going on over there????
theres many of us outside the sates that cant believe it either . . .

i'm starting to believe that countries such as australia, england, new zealand, etc should get a vote in the american elections . .

we as so affected by what happens in the states and all we can do is sit here and watch in fear.




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[quote=CuspofMagic] yeah --- the Kiwi's are definitely biological[/quote]


hhhhhhelllllll yes . . .


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Is love an emotional need.....: click here to read the entire thread »

hello gilly darling . . .



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yeah we all 'want' to be loved . . . sadly that doesnt mean we're capable of giving it . . .




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its not love that stops us from killing each other its fear . . . which is the exact opposite of love . . .


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(I have an adage of my own. A black man makes you feel like a queen, but you know that he has 4 other women in his life as well as you. A white man treats you like shit, but he is faithful......)

oh princess . . . i dont know whether to laugh or cry . . . but i think theres some truth to what you say.







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the question has to be asked . . what is love?

ask ten different people and you are likely to get ten differnt answers . . love means so many different things to people.

and there have been many terrible things done in the name of love.

at this point in history very few people are evolved enough to love one another . . just because we have strong feelings for someone doesnt mean its love.

i believe the closest we come to it is a mothers love for her child. and even that is not always the case . . some mothers cant stand their children.






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mmmm . . .


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oh of course tin foil . . .


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dude . . . i been wondering the same thing for ages but didnt think to ask . . .




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