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what are the 3 biggest mistakes that you ever made in your life ? and what did you learn from it ?: click here to read the entire thread »

For me personally, no it doesn´t make you look bad... why should whether or not you´ve had children make you a good or bad person? For me the fact that you want them would be a problem and may be for women just a bit older then you are because many of us have had children and don´t want anymore... but again wether or not it makes you look "bad" is crazy and anyone who would judge you on that woudn´t be worth spending time with. Good luck


Is a man in his late 30s with no kids a good thing or bad?: click here to read the entire thread »

Well I didn´t always live in Ibiza... just 5 years now.


what are the 3 biggest mistakes that you ever made in your life ? and what did you learn from it ?: click here to read the entire thread »

Personally I don´t think there is any such thing as a mistake, just experiences that we learn from and that contribute to who we are today. It´s all about living... "Life may not be the party we expected it to be, but we may as well dance while we´re here"


what are the 3 biggest mistakes that you ever made in your life ? and what did you learn from it ?: click here to read the entire thread »

Ok, they passed the 3 strikes you're out law... which was a complete and utter disaster, overcrowding jails for drug related offenses, non violent burglary etc. Creating an environment of doing anything including killing witness's to avoid being caught.

When are the going to do the sensible thing and make it a law that if you use a weapon in a crime you go to jail for life. No parole, no good behaviour no extenuating circumstances? Then maybe we can get some control back.


HAPPINESS IS A WARM GUN...: click here to read the entire thread »

Hi Dana wow I've been busy and gone for a bit... what a thread to come back to! Need to go take some ecstasy so I can join in the love fest!


age keep it in CAGE? am i right..........: click here to read the entire thread »

I don't believe in changing in order to have a relationship... my life is what it is and I love it, would just be nice to have someone to share it with, so I'm looking for someone who enjoys the same lifestyle that I do.


Are you willing and able?: click here to read the entire thread »

Happy Birthday KS!!!!!

Hope all your dreams and wishes come true this year!

Big Hugs and Kisses


Happy birthday KrazieStill!!!: click here to read the entire thread »

Games, games, games. I'm sorry but I just don't understand all this dating manouvering and rules.

Isn't dating supposed to be about getting to know each other? How does following a set of standard dating "do's and don'ts" reflect us as individuals?

I say if you feel like calling him then call him... let him know that you're thinking about him and have enjoyed the time you have spent together, be yourself. It will either work out or it won't but if he backs off because you're being yourself and doing what you feel like doing then chances are that eventually it's not going to work out anyway.

I used to be really good at playing the game... and dated a lot, but what did it get me? A bunch of dates that were going nowhere because who they were attracted to wasn't really who I am.

Also, in this day of equality... why are we still playing by the rules our mothers played by? Why is the burden of pursuit and potential rejection always on the man?

I say be yourself... if that scares him off then he's probably not the right guy anyway...


Should I call him?: click here to read the entire thread »

Do you like this....?


and how about this...


if you liked that...


you're gonna love this....


4 WORDS LEADING UP TO SEX: click here to read the entire thread »

Ok, I may have spelt it wrong... but I chose her first!!!! but I'll be nice... we can both be Lara


who would you want to be as a superhero?: click here to read the entire thread »

OMG!!!! and I thought women were bad! Lighten up darling and stop putting the cart before the horse. Go. Have Fun. Report back.


So...I have this date tomorrow and would like some takes on this (attention whore thread): click here to read the entire thread »

I'm with you Jan, I can't imagine going without sex for an extended period of time, for me it is a basic need.


MASLOW'S PYRAMID: click here to read the entire thread »

As in Guatamala??? That was one of the most wonderful places I've been to. I camped just outside the park and snuck in really early... before anyone else was there, it was magnificent watching the sun come up over the ruins... the howler monkeys pelting me with leaves and sticks... I loved Guatamala


Summer vacation: click here to read the entire thread »

Oh I'm so sorry Phil, that must have been incredibly hard... being there but not being able to hold on to her, I think she was very fortunate to have you as a brother. By all means, please dedicate this thread in her honor and memory.


There has been so much negative... lets do something positive!!!: click here to read the entire thread »

I spent several years when I was growing up on a farm where we were about 70% self sufficient. If I meet a life partner sometime in the not to distant future my dream would be to own and operate an agro tourismo here on Ibiza where we grow the majority of the food we serve, I often miss that lifestyle!


Consumer or Producer: click here to read the entire thread »

They say "if you want to feed a man for a day give him a fish, if you want to feed him the rest of his life teach him to fish"


There has been so much negative... lets do something positive!!!: click here to read the entire thread »

Of course that counts!!! I rescued so many stray kittens and done the whole bottle feeding thing... I'm sure they all bring you lots of joy now!

Bajan, what a great story and a good laugh, thanks!

hey SF, I lived in the city for quite a number of years, I can't believe how much the homeless population has grown there. Cities throughout the US give their homeless bus tickets to S.F.... every little bit helps! (I also am a sucker for the honest panhandlers and always give something to the guys who have a sign "need food for booze or drugs")


There has been so much negative... lets do something positive!!!: click here to read the entire thread »

Why thank you.... there's one big difference between sexing and a cup of coffee for me....










I'm very particular about my coffee.


Is sex part of a healthy relationship?: click here to read the entire thread »

With out a doubt it would have to be Laura Croft... all those toys and gadgets, traveling the world over... kicking ass and not taking names... she's the best!


who would you want to be as a superhero?: click here to read the entire thread »