now this is like comparing apples to oranges. first of all you need to define the question.
Do you mean: Your in a comittted relationship, and you are striking up conversations and flirting,and arranging private calls,emails and meetings? then hello yeah your cheating.
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Do you mean you have been emailing(private not through this site)
talking like there the only one you talk to in a relationship way. and in fact your not on the site any more, or any other one. then yes my friend your a "two bit cheater".
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Do you mean you commuicate (on this site only) with her/him have small talk, mentioned already you've talked to someone on this site or another site, no your not cheating.
Now a key part to a good realationship is communication both of giving and extracting (in some casese lol). Honesty falls in communication.
Granted privatecy is a respective issue,but then again,thats where honesty and trust come to play.
but thats just my opinion.
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