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hi darlynda....confront the lies but expect the excuses.......don t trust a liar........adios amigos...you can say to him.....jimmy


WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN SOMEONE LIES ON THEIR PROFILE AND YOU MEET THEM AND FIND OUT?: click here to read the entire thread »

hi darlynda..i think its really that looks draw you, and the inside keeps you.......you have to have an attraction..and intially its the looks..but it will go beyond that to who one is inside...........


why are people so hung up on looks cause really its whats on the inside that counts for the longterm: click here to read the entire thread »

PLEASE DONT POISON THE WELL


ONCE WE PLAYED AS CHILDREN
LIFE WAS JUST A GAME
NOW WE'RE GROWN AND OLDER
NOTHING QUITE THE SAME
EACH OF US IS A SOUL
SO TREAT WITH TENDER CARE
LETS KEEP EACH OTHER WHOLE


PLEASE DONT POISON THE WELL
AND MAKE SOMEBODY SAD
TEARS ON THE PILLOW
WHEN THEIR HEART SHOULD BE GLAD
WHY WILL WE NOT LEARN
EACH HURT ADDS TO THE ONES
TRYING TO DO THEIR BEST

PLEASE DONT POISON THE WELL
AND SPOIL THEM FOR THE REST
WORDS AND ACTIONS DO IT
AND WE ALL PLAY THE GAME
FORGETTING WE WERE CHILDREN ONCE
WHO SAID DONT USE THAT CANE
TRYING TO BE KIND IS THEN OUR AIM..................






dont poison the life of a person: click here to read the entire thread »

when love arrives and starts
to put my head into a spin
round and round I go
Here comes that feelin again

now each day has new meanings
as touched with feelings new again
but as soon as they come sometimes
they slip off like the morning rain

I think for a while have i lost it
I try to recall moments rare
and just when i get really worried
I find that they were always there

so when you awake and feel nothing
dont give up into panic and see
when you stop looking for feelings
again they ll appear you ll see







you fall in love again: click here to read the entire thread »

LIKE A JOURNEY THAT YOU TAKE
BE IT ROAD OR RAIL OR AIR
YOU WILL FIND THAT THERE WILL BE
BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE THERE

WONDER WHO I LL MEET NEXT
ON THE ROAD OR RAIL OR AIR
ARE THEY CLOSE BESIDE ME
OR SOMEWHERE STILL OUT THERE

YOU AND I WILL NEVER KNOW
THE NEXT PERSON WE SEE
COULD BE A SPECIAL PERSON
JUST FOR YOU OR ME

BUT HEARTACHE FOLLOWS OFTEN
AND DREAMS CAN FALL LIKE RAIN
LOVERS DONT ALLWAYS UNITE
AND SOMETIMES THERE IS PAIN

PEOPLE CAN JUST SAY GOODBYE
AND THAT IS HARD TO TAKE
YET SOMEWHERE IN THE MIX OF IT
A NEW WAY WE MUST MAKE

MAY THEN YOUR TOMORROWS
BE BRIGHTER THEN FOR YOU
AND LIKE A RAINBOW IN THE SKY
ECHO YOU COMING THRU..........................TO LOVE AGAIN........








LOVE AND HEARTACHE AND RAINBOWS: click here to read the entire thread »

thanks for the comments paddy1 yes you are right it takes a bit of doing


LOOKING FOR LOVE DONT GIVE UP: click here to read the entire thread »

SOMEONE IS LOOKING
TO SKY UP ABOVE
WISHING AND WANTING
FOR SOMEONE TO LOVE


SOMEWHERE SOMEBODY
IS THINKING THE SAME
TIRED OF THE LONELY
NAME OF THIS GAME


NO EASY ANSWERS
THE PILLOW WILL SAY
BUT SUNLIGHT AND MORNINGS
BRING OUT A NEW DAY

HOLD ONTO BELIEVING
HOLD ONTO YOURSELF
YOU NEVER WERE MADE
TO BE LEFT ON THE SHELF

OTHERS HAVE MADE IT
SO WHY NOT WE TOO
PUSH PAST THE PAIN
MAY WE LEARN TO DO..............TO A NEW TOMORROW....


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the nun with red hair

Paul quest had not seen Megan, for some 10 years.
the last time was as two teenage sweethearts who were in love and wanted to put some of the world to right..

her family moved from the country home into the big city. it was a sad goodbye but we said we would find each other one day, somewhere...

it was a warm and tender kiss that echoed our goodbye back then.

but it was 10 years on and it was a chance meeting at a bookshop that i saw megan.
she had grown and become even lovelier.

paul, paul quest she replied, my how lovely to see you again..

and i you megan replied paul..and i you..for a moment they just stared at each other...

have you time for a coffee paul asked..sure megan replied, it would be nice.

paul took her to a quiet little resturant. and he could tell she liked it.

they both sat down and looked a while at each other

Megan looked as sharp and as lovely as before..her striking red and long curly hair, her freckly face, with those absorbing and intelligent blue eyes, she looked the same way back at him.

He looked at her as she was gazing back at him.

Paul quest, after all after these years...said megan with a smile.

she looked with wondering eyes at him,


Paul looked at her...she could see he was looking at her in a direct manner.

Megan followed his eyes as they looked toward her neck.

Megan asked him, does this bother you? she said pointing her slendour fingers to the collar she wore.

..Megan was a nun....

Paul responded well it did take me by suprise..I did nt quite expect said paul.


I understand megan softly answered.

but do be its what i want and i am happy..megan said...i have had lots of good times..and this for me is just one more..I wanted something with meaning..and this is it for me

paul answered i understand well i think i do.. with a wondering smile..

Megan looked at him lovingly and said I am contented paul for the first time in a long time. she reached out and held his hands. it was for a moment like old times to feel that warm and safe touch.

we had some great times you and i she said to paul,

he replied we sure did..and they embarked momentarily down some rabbit trail of memories that both laughed and smiled at...

but now i am she said a nun.

i am a novice in training....

be happy for me?

Paul could see how much that meant, and it was not easy to say but he said it..

i am megan i am happy for you

megan sensed how that was hard and squeezed his hands again.

I see you have a place in harley street megan said...consultant pyschiatrist with your own practice..

he looked suprised. I have followed your career paul..megan said.

this brought a warm feeling to paul..

for a moment the two just stopped talking and just looked at each other.

we have come far megan said paul..

and you did you ever marry before..

before i became a nun..no paul.

and you..she asked....no megan..was pauls reply..

where are you based said paul...oh i am at st michaels parish just around the block...

with that they had another coffee while outside the evening sun was gone..

part one jimmysolo



the nun with red hair 2: click here to read the entire thread »

Paul, had not seen Megan, for over five years,but she looked as sharp and as lovely as before..her striking red and long curly hair, her freckly face, with those absorbing and intelligent blue eyes...Megan was a vibrant and lively woman..but that was 5 years ago..she looked the same but had the years been good to her...He looked at her as she was gazing back at him.

Paul quest after all after these years...It was a chance meeting at a bookshop that brought to sweethearts together.

she looked with wondering eyes at him, well paul tell me about you, what have you been doing these years...

he looked at her...does this bother you she said pointing her slendour fingers to the collar she wore...megan was a nun....

not bother exactly was his reply..just suprised...

dont be megan answered...i had a lot of times when life was good but then i just had to find something more..

and this is it ..

yes i think so...i am contented paul...for the first time..

paul just looked at her...she saw his perplexed look and reached out her hand and caught his...yes paul...i am a novice and in training now and i like what i do...

be happy for me...

paul mustered himself and said i am megan if you are..

yes i am paul....

the time went as two old friends renewed moments, smiling and laughing she was still the same megan in part...though paul felt he had lost something...

they were once childhood sweethearts..but her family moved her away and they lost contact...it was just the other day he saw her and it was a wonderful suprise and to be around her again just brought back so much...

i am at st michaels she replied...should you want to meet again sometime..

what of you paul...he told her of his life since then and how he was settling into his new job...he was a doctor at last..you made it then ...yes megan....and you are happy ....yes megan...he said it with tongue in cheek.

soon they were parting to go their several ways...he looked at her as she looked at him....she could see in his eyes he was bothered...its for the best paul .....megan put out her hand...paul looked and took it..they shook...though both had been affected by the meeting....its for the best paul said megan...and with a little tear in her eyes she turned and hurried away.....

paul thought...st michaels ....and walked off in a slighty better mind...maybe...


date with a nun: click here to read the entire thread »

how would you respond to the above...in todays world we are pressured by a sex driven culture...it s like swimming against the tide to do the right thing...we are human and slip...but do we want to do the right thing...as some of the above are, well i like these...how about you...


would you like to date this way: click here to read the entire thread »

just for loving you
guilty is my plea
ever since we met
your heart has
captured me
and on this day
of a thousand dreams
this is mine to see
marianne my love
will you marry me

marianne looked back
her eyes as falling rain
i feel the same
my heart does too
lie captive to you
so on this day
of a thousand dreams
this also is true
jonathan my love
i plead guilty too





guilty - of just loving you: click here to read the entire thread »

AMY OPENED THE PAPER AT THE DATING PAGE, AND PENCIL IN HAND READ DOWN THE LIST OF PROSPECTIVE DATES..SHE WAS NEW TO THE AREA AND HAD LOOKED FOR A WAY TO MEET SOMEONE ON A BLIND DATE..SHE CIRCLED A FEW AND THEN NARROWED THE SEARCH TO ONE....HMMMM SHE THOUGHT ....OK SHE SAID OK...

WELL THAT WAS A WEEK AGO AND A DATE WAS SET UP....THEY WOULD MEET IN A RESTURANT FOR A COFFEE..AND SEE...

HE CAME IN AND LOOKED AROUND AS SHE LOOKED UP AND AFTER A MOMENTS GLANCE AND SEEING BOTH WERE LOOKING..".ARE YOU FRANK" SHE SAID ..".YES"
" AMY" YES CAME THE REPLY...

WELL COFFEE CAME AND THEY TALKED....AND TALKED...IT WAS GOING WELL.....SOON THE THEY WERE OUT GOING AROUND THE TOWN ...MAKING THE MOST OF THE AFTERNOON....BOTH NERVOUSLY FEELING THEIR WAY ALONG IN CONVERSATION AND GESTURES....

I REMEMBER WE GOT INTO ONE COFFEE SHOP AND SHE WOULD LATER SAY..."YOU KNOW I WANTED TO HOLD YOUR HANDS BACK THERE BUT I WAS NOT SURE HOW YOU WOULD REACT"

ABOUT 2 MORE COFFEE SHOPS ON AND TWO TIRED WALKERS WE SAT ACROSS FROM EACH OTHER...

NOW IT WAS FRANK WHO HAD THAT FEELING THOUGH AMY DID NOT KNOW..".SHOULD I REACH FOR HER HAND..I WOULD LIKE TOO" MAYBE SHE READ HIS MIND THAT MOMENT...AS THEIR EYES JUST SEEMED TO LINGER ON EACH OTHER.....HER HAND MOVED ACROSS THE TABLE AND WITH OUT A SECOND THOUGHT FRANK REACHED FOR HER HAND..

THEIR HANDS CLASPED AND THEIR EYES JUST SAID WHAT WAS NOW IN THEIR THOUGHTS....THIS BLIND DATE...WAS NO LONGER BLIND...

IT ALL BEGAN JUST THERE AND THEN....A BLIND DATE ....A CUP OR CUPS OF COFFEE...THE TOUCH OF HANDS....THIS IS HOW IT WOULD BE...WALKING TOGETHER HOLDING HANDS...EVERYWHERE FROM THAT DAY ON...

THERE IS SOMETHING TO BE SAID FOR HAND HOLDING...IT IS WARM TOUCHING AND EASES AWAY ANY NERVES WITH LOVING TENDERNESS...

A TRUE STORY...THE NAMES ARE CHANGED ONLY




LOVE IS HOLDING HANDS: click here to read the entire thread »

moments are like pieces
of jigsaws in our lives
putting them together
is not always that easy

we all can do our best
and then we leave the rest
sometimes there are limits
so far we can go

some jiqsaws we complete
and celebrate the feat
others lie in tatters
scattered all around

say a prayer
let heaven know
all the things that touch
you here below
you may see
you may find
that you were on His mind
all of the time..


our lives are like jiqsaw pieces: click here to read the entire thread »

it is true things seem better in the morning
something about a day thats new
as light begins its dawning
and fears fall away once again

it is true nights can close in on you
steal your tomorrows making you feel blue
and if you re on your own
troubles just kinda get full blown

and painful thoughts we feel
with questions that are real
will this nightmare end one day or
just keep haunting me

but as you rest your head
upon your lonely bed say a prayer
God may the days ahead be better
as rain cant last forever


trains come out of tunnels
so my friend will we
just hold on and dont give in
and the morning sun you ll see

it will speak of better days
as you feel the suns warm rays
holding on coming through
my friend its up to you....good luck




sad and blue..new days for you: click here to read the entire thread »

THE WHITENED CLOUDS DRIFT HIGH ABOVE
WHILE BLOODIED EARTH CRIES OUT BELOW
BENEATH A MEADOW IN THE SUN
AND THROUGH THE COUNTLESS AGES RUN
AS WE ARE TOLD IN ANCIENT TIMES
WHEN THAT FIRST KILLING SOUND DID CHIME


AS EARTH THAT FEELS THE SPILL OF MEN
WHEN SOLDIERS FALL AND FALL AGAIN
THIS BLOODED EARTH CRIES OUT TO CEASE
SHE QUAKES WITH PROTEST STILL
WHILE PEACE THE CLOUDS REFLECT
WE LIVE TO DIE WE LIVE TO KILL
AND DO IT IN THE CAUSE OF PEACE




we kill the earth will blood: click here to read the entire thread »

FAITH FINDING OUT FOR OURSELVES

WHEN WE EVER COME NEAR THE REALM OF RELIGION OR CHURCH IT LEAVES MANY PEOPLE WITH A WIDE VARIETY OF VIEWS, GOOD, BAD OR PLAIN INDIFFERENT..WE MIGHT HAVE HAD EXPERIENCE OF CHURCH WITH A NEGATIVE REACTION OR NOT HAVE

MANY LOOK AT LIFE AND COME TO THE CONCLUSION THERE CANNOT BE BASED ON EVENTS WE EXPERIENCE, SEE, OR KNOW.AND VIEW A WORLD THAT HAS, EVIL, INJUSTICE AND SADNESS, GRIEF AND SORROW TO DENT EVEN THE SLIGHTEST INTEREST..BUT INSTEADS BRINGS ANGER AND CONFUSION...ANSWERS ARE NOT EASY AS LIFE IS NOT..

AND SOMETIMES THERE ARE NO ANSWERS..

SO HOW CAN WE TELL IF THERE IS SOME HIGHER POWER WHEN ALL WE SEEMS TO DEFY THAT.

AND YET DOWN THROUGH THE YEARS THERE HAS BEEN RELIGION, FAITH AND BELIEVING PEOPLE HAVE LIVED AND DIED FOR SUCH A FAITH...EVEN TODAY THE STORY IS THE SAME...


WE ALWAYS MAKE OUR OWN JUDGEMENTS FOR OURSELVESBELOW IS OF A ...WHEN YOU ALONE KNOW..JUST LIKE THE WOMAN IN THE BIBLE....JOHN CHAPTER 4..AFTER A DIALOGUE WITH CHRIST HIMSELF..SHE SEES CLEARLY WHO HE IS.

THOSE WHO HEARD HER TELL DID NOT INTIALLY BELIEVE HER BUT WENT TO SEE FOR THEMSELVES..ONLY THEN DID THEY BELIEVE..




SEEING FOR OURSELVES-: click here to read the entire thread »

a choice for women..


do women prefer on a man: click here to read the entire thread »

if you want to you can post this to the woman at the sight...no problem..


loving her the right way: click here to read the entire thread »

theres a love born of emotion
which will put you in a spin
and you will just do crazy stuff
when love you will begin
logic and your reasonings
just seem to disappear
when someone whispers
i love you in your ear

real love is deeper
coming from the heart
gently and with tenderness
no pressure from the start
no setting you conditions
to prove it by in someway
true love adores and cherishes
and shows it day by day




loving her the right way: click here to read the entire thread »

yes but nothing is easy...thanks for the comments


looking for tennessee times again: click here to read the entire thread »