lol, it seems to me that in this day in age most women are attracted to drama and chaos. Why is it they always go for the bad boys? It makes me literially sick when some mindless dufus who's probably high on 3 different drugs, can get all of the attention from women.
Apparently their temporary high makes them look confident, and more outgoing. It's clear that these men have absolutely no chivalry whatsoever. yeah, they're hot? So what, I'm sure that if I spent large amounts of money, contributed to terrorism, and gang related violence.. a little methamphetamines, steroids, or some cocaine would probably make me look sexy too. But since I'm a law abiding citizen, I choose not to, but that inevitably makes me look "uncool." to people. As if I need drugs to be like everyone else.. They don't work, drugs can kill you.... there's a reason why it's illegal...it's for your own safety...But the whole marijuana thing to me is a whole different issue, and I am not in the liberty of discussing that right now.
They tell you they love you, because it's an insurance policy to continue to get into your pants while they sleep with other women. They'll force you to support them, and pay for their bail when they go to jail for the 5th fucking time.
Yet, all the guys (like me) who've been raised with moral values. (I am not talking about religous stuff, or some kind of weird shy nerdy types.) but truly normal guys who are just nice, and don't need to act stupid to get attention, seem to always finish up last.
Yet these women who are: "my friends" (yeah, you know what I'm talking about.) come to me whining about how their man cheated on them, or how they went to jail again, or how they beat them. As a result, all I have to say to them is.... I told you so.
So what happens next? They go from being with that asshole, to another one. "Oh I know he can be an asshole sometimes, but hes so cute."
Yeah, well looks fade, and eventually all there is...is love, and who wants to be in love with a total prick?
That's why I've noticed such a massive increase in the divource rate of people I know in their mid-20's, simply because their relationship was based on a physical attraction, rather than a compatible soulmate.
A good friend of mine was married for 8 years, he caught his wife sleeping with one of her employees. She basically dropped the bomb on him, and told him the reason why she did it, was because he gained some weight... "some" ... not a whole lot, but enough for her to tear up their family, and generate custody issues for their one and only son, and then as he attempts to patch up the relationship, she accuses him of cheating on her, when he was talking to a female friend online (from a whole different state!) about the issues regarding their relationship to justify closure, as an excuse to prevent the relationship from working...
Nice huh?...Just thought I'd post this...something to think about. Women confuse the hell out of me, when they constantly jump from one emotion to the next, during their complex thinking processes. Which usually ends up in an unpredictable descision pattern, which makes everyone else say...what the fuck...and, why? While she remains firm with her choice, without thinking how those choices effect other people.
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