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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Jun 12, 2007, 10:20 PM CST
I would say that it is better to have loved and lost.

If you don't love and haven't been loved than how are you going to know what it is like.

So then how are you going to know that it is better to have never loved at all.

I choose to love !!


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: May 25, 2007, 11:47 PM CST

I want a day to do whatever it is that pops in my head, without having to worry what other people are doing or if my foster kids have rides to practice/work/appointments or diapers to change.


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Oct 25, 2006, 5:59 PM CST
Well in polite conversation everyone always says that size doesn't matter -- that it is how you use it that matters. Well that really isn't the truth, if there isn't a substantial amount there to work with it really isn't worth the time dancing banana


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 30, 2006, 9:06 PM CST
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if you could only have one what would your choose? come on be honest
love without sex -- hands down.


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 30, 2006, 8:48 PM CST
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I think you are incorrect in assuming ALL women hate metal. I personally like heavy music. Korn,Disturbed,Godsmack,Linkin Park,etc. I like music loud and angry. I even got my sister into some of the music I like. So clearly not all girls hate metalheads.
hey I have heard of all of those bands and like the music too, guess I must not be one of those chicks :)


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 8:41 PM CST
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I know of course this cannot competete to losing a child in death.
The most broken thing for this Dad is losing a child in divorce.
I think that the most broken thing in my life would be my heart, but I am sure that you experience that with losing your children in divorce and the divorce in general.


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 8:39 PM CST
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o she's not from this service,When i'm really interested in someone as her.she started it up and let me know it was okay to talk about being togeather and love in stuff,so I went form that and did my chat thing ut I don't play with feelings,We have plans to meet

but I think she needs to open up to me and at;east show me she's little more interested then what she's not showing me.


I need this from her or it will be like the relationship is for me and none for her.


If you ask me she's the luckiest girl in the world to have someone that expresses things how I can,and I ask very little form her
You know, I would have to agree with you. Not alot of men express their feelings, or their true feelings - they just talk about stuff but the men I know keep their true feelings to themselves.

One of my problems might be that I always ask what I want to know, if there is something bothering me I am very open about it. I think that is a very important part of relationships.

So ask her and keep asking her until you get the answers that you need. It has been pleanty of time so this isn't new to either of you, so if she is really interested in pursuing this relationship then she needs to give a little.


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 8:25 PM CST
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I haven't met her yet but known her form the internet for two years or more and just got more involved over the last 3months.


I think I'm trying to hard to make it work cause I don't like not gettiong what i want i guess
Is she from here? Getting more involved how? Sorry being nosey. I know about the trying hard to make it work. I just gave up on a local guy here that expressed interest and then turned around told me that he really really likes me but only wants to be friends. I tried being friends because he is going through alot of stuff and that is what he said he needed. But being the one that has to call all the time does get old.


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 8:18 PM CST
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You and tinker get it planned and let me know ok. I would
love to take you around. Linda
We will have to do that. Thought she would be on tonight but I haven't seen here. Been expecting her to pop up with "Which coach are you talking about" but haven't seen her.


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 8:16 PM CST
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also if your looking for a nice relationship with a guy that tells you sweet things that you enjoy hearing that is single,you should got to a local gathering like a bar,

even know you meet him there I'm willing to bet he's looking to meet you
I don't think that it is all you. I would hate to say that maybe it is just the women that you are picking. I can chat your ear off (or your eyes out) whatever on here but then I get on the phone with someone it is just more difficult to find something to talk about on the spot.

As for the local gathering bar type place, we don't really have places like that here. Most of our bars are going out and getting drunk kind of places.

Just curious, where did you meet your current woman?


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 8:13 PM CST
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I understand my Nebraska neighbor. No matter how lonely I
am I will never get arelationship going with a married man.
I also flower and message many people. Some answer, some don't
and that's fine. I just keep trudging along. Tonight I got
on my web cam for the first time with a gentleman that I have
been chatting with for about 2 weeks. Always seemed like a
gentleman when I viewed him, but I had only been on about
10 minutes and I saw trouble, so I just deleted him. Yes, I
am the first to admit I am lonely, but not so desperate to
show men my body. Hope you find what you are looking for.
Hey Nebraska lady, my friend Tinker keeps talking about coming up there, or over there, or down there or whatever to come up and party with you. Back to what you said I don't think I could do the web cam thing either and to show men my body on the internet, don't think that would happen for me either. Thanks for the hopes.


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 8:01 PM CST
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I don't really understand your question. The answer to me would be quite obvious.... married men are a
And when the time is right you will meet an (unmarried)man, probably when you least expect it...... Good luck Kim
I know married men are a no, no. I guess my question is how come all the ones that express interest are married and where/how do you find a single one that can express the same amount of interest.


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 7:59 PM CST
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I take it like she don't have anything in common and I could very well be wasting my time.

I always seem to fall for the girls who aren't really my type.

I'm always the one bring up new subjects with this girl and if I don't we won't talk .How should I deal with that?
I have that problem too, I have in the past liked the bad boys and the guys that seem like a challange to get that way there was always somethig to talk about and somethig to do.

But lately I have been in the same situation you are in. Always doing the calling and feel as though I am making all the effort. Has it been a while that this has been going on or is it a new relationship/friendship?


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 7:57 PM CST
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Seems to me some men think that if you have been alone for any length of time it means you are desperate...so you will take what you can get...even if it is a married cad!!!!!


Thanks nativegrl38. I hate being looked at that way, I don't think of myself as desperate but some days I may feel that way but it is more just lonely.


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 7:54 PM CST
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I think the guys that do that are probably missing, or board with, their love life at home.. It's no excuse but I think that may be it. Some may just take you as another trophy as cold as that might sound..
Not to say some women don't do the same
That is just so cold. I just can't understand people like that. Thanks WindRider for your input.


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 7:53 PM CST
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some people lose focus of what marriage is and they get bored.then they do the nasty. filthy animals
Guess me question to you cran - are there faithful married men out there anymore OR are there single men out there that are going to be faithful once they do get married? Or is this something of the past?


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 7:52 PM CST
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Stay away from married men.
You will cause only complications for you, him, his family and your kids too, if he is involved with the school sports. Your mood swings will reflect in how you treat everyone around. It's a dead end and it's not fair to his family either.
That you for your advice. I don't think that I could actually get involved with him because of his wife and kids. If I was in a relationship I wouldn't want some woman intruding into what is mine. I guess the attention and the compliments are good to hear and it sucks when it comes from someone that shouldn't be giving them to you in the first place.


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 7:49 PM CST
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He's not a very faithfull man it seems.

And it seems like he's not getting what he needs at home.

I have a question aslo,why do alot of women find it hard to have a conversation to the guy she's interested in..
I guess I would have to say to your question that I have a hard time talking to guys that I am interested in because there is a little fear of rejection. Have been through the "getting to know you" period many times and after being blown off several times you kind of gun shy. At least that is the way it is for me. Does that help a little?


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 7:43 PM CST
Come on guys, I need some help. You all look, I know you have something to say.


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kimjoko
Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Posted: Aug 29, 2006, 7:33 PM CST
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This is depressing! Doesn't everybody? Well, I guess except for the people who already have it, or the playas, and, umm, the haters! Yea, a man would be nice. Hmmmm, yea. Yea, definately! Like I said, this is depressing. Oh well.
So what we are only allowed to post happy positive threads?


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