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[quote=trish123]mostly yep - on the ethics and morals thing I would like to add that imo. everybody has a basic framework for their decision making and this is usually influenced greatly by the society which surrounds them. When somebody deviates from the norms of that society, it brings all sorts of judgmentalists out of the woodwork with their own, often very valid opinions, on why 'rule breakers' are out of order, but they are relating to the issues subjectively - the way 'they' think people should conduct themselves and from the point of view of their own conditioning.

I do this all the time too and have to correct my thinking at times - Im not getting at anybody here - just trying to work it out really.

Trish it seems like we have a slight disagreement on Society influence. I do not give a flying shit on what society thinks about my decisions ... they are mine ... I make them according on my experience. As long it doesn't make me a criminal I am happy with my decisions.




btw thanks for new names of Fantasy authors ... Will find and read

I am a great admire of Andre Norton, Anne McCaffrey and Ursula K.Le Guin ( interestingly enough all three of them are females Hmmm)




Sorry Riya for a wee hijacking


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1.does it in anyway remark on their morals or ethics as people

Yes it does JMO .... ( I am talking about cheap prostitution like 10 $ per blow job) I am not talking about Geisha's services ... All prostitutes from around the World have to go to Japan and learn from Geishas


2. If you (or someone you have known) were ever in love with a woman whom you later found out to have such a past , would it matter ? Same question for women. if the guy has had such a past, does it matter ?

For me it would. I prefer not to extend on WHY. Sorry Riya!

3.The issue causes hurt to you ( if it does ) based on what ? * religion * morals and ethics or * its impact on society ?

I don't think that society has anything to do with personal morality of each of us. Morality it is something we inherit ... it is genetic. Society only creates the demand ( and it seems like it is getting out of hand so many broken lives because of our poor choices we make when we do not think with BRAIN when we fall in Lust ang get married)

4. If a person for his physical needs ( not married and doesnt have a partner ) wishes to involve in the same is it wrong ?

Why not

5. What needs to be done ( if there is anything to be done)?



As Rusty Knight has said in his post (in another thread) “There would be no prostitutes if they had no client”

And Smoky “because it is very seldom I see a wife who still cares about her appearance, or the happiness of her husband .......” and the same goes for men.

Morning girl




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I would say "to abuse you"


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It all depends how free we are with our perception of emotional events. Evolution has to be a teacher. But being a human beings and the only species on Planet that have an emotional intelligence, (which is a trigger for making a choice or a decision) makes us sometimes vulnerable to learn and to accept and let it go.

The choices are ours ... to be and feel happy .... or to stay in suspicious state and feel miserable.

Great thread Al ... Hope everything is all right in your World


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I was thinking about it too, actually .... Women (some at least do need sexual services as well)

So where are those Male Whorehouses?

Need more coffee ... I guess!


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Hm ... you woke up some memory here. I happened to be in this situation back to Russia. I gave it back to him (and my 2 kids were starving) ... we become friends. The ways of life are mysterious.

The way my parents taught me ... Honesty is first. By cheating or lying you will only disgrace yourself. Be proud no matter what. That's what parents told me. And I am grateful to them for those lessons.


There is always tomorrow ... no one have died of hunger these days,yet. (At least on Eurasian continent).






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OMG Those decoration pictures somewhat reminds me of Italians of New York Christmas

Just love the first One




Thanks Cat ... back to waxing back fender on my bike.


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and thank you very much Need some laughs. You find the funniest pictures Cat.





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This is a foggy area for me as well ... Have no bloody clue ... although if to think logically after 10-15 clients per day it is might affect the feeling of being horny.


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It is all right Cat, it takes a lot to put me down ... i do not think anyone even ever succeeded in it.

Do you have more pictures about "Oh! Those Idiots"? That one you've posted was awesome.

Say Hi to Fiords


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You know ... the sad thing is .... There is an excuse for everything.


It was not a judgment of prostitution .... I was quite impressed (not)by using "Strong Woman" term by Red. Perhaps she do not understand precise meaning of this Word ... Strong.


Okay, then I shall go with a Woman of Strength


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You know I do smile when it is funny or when I feel happy ... I do not keep glued idiotic smile 24/7 just because my income depends on it. That makes me more free than you. Don't you think so?

Though you are right (about me not smiling) When I was in that Exotic dancer's business my nick name was IceQueen and trust me men payed a lot for me being like that.


As for your family it would be much better if they could support your education not you being a prostitute.

I am glad you out of rotten nights ... Stay clean and proud in Spain ... no one knows you down there. Good luck


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You are right, girl ... It is my opinion.

And I do like sex 20/7. I am far away from being a tender virgin

but not with every one who pays me.


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Oh noooo ... just be careful and read every thread or post to the END.



by the way did you forget about a Kettle on a stove?


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What a load of bullshit. It takes a weak and ignorant mind to play in Prostitution Land.

Strong women choose real Life were they are not slaves of anyone they do not want as a sex partner.


Self-respect is the main element of STRONG WOMAN.



I have been in Exotic dancer business (States) for 6 month and I felt myself so bloody dirty being in this business. And it even not a Prostitution ( though for some girls it is)


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You woman need to start to write screenplays for Hollywood and invite Huge Grant to play Mr. McMaybe ... Uma Thurman would be the best choice for a pregnant part. Or you may be the one ... I am pretty sure.

Do not get pregnant on your next trip ... or all your wee story will come true ... I know you want it






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OMG! I called my baby girl Jeep Cherokee ... she is GRAND my baby girl .. just Cherokee

yes it is a Russian custom but first we do vacuums our babies before wash and wax procedures .

We will see how it is going to be with Dune digesting ... i hope I can swallow it.




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Falling i am trying to find out about those differences like for 7 years ... still foggy. It seems like Ya and You means the same ... but there is something that makes them different. I am puzzled, honestly.

I refuse to use Ya in my vocabulary .... Do not like it ( have no clue why ) In my opinion Ya has something to do with a luck of education. I might be wrong ... .but still ...

Morning in Emerald Country ... gotta run


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When you read that stuff. Do you.Trish normally read between the lines and how many cups of coffee keeps you awake?

Well ... have never watched or read "Dune " so now I feel like a right time to start. So I've read first 30 pages ... want to know what's gonna happened next

Oh yeah and Jeep Cherokee manual, pruning techniques and Plant Catalogs are the main read these days. Spring!

Morning Lady .... and gone I am time to wash and wax my baby girl.

Have a great one


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Hm ... interesting point ... so what you trying to tell is the true meaning of Loves are emerges only when "you" is used not "ya"?

Hey there


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