Posted: Apr 20, 2008, 6:08 AM CST
lavender84 wrote:I don`t want to criticate or judge anyone but we have say the truth. A man and a woman to get married so to start to live forever together (in theory) have to share everything. Sex as well. I cannot imagine two that gets married without had sex together before. Sex is an important part od a couple`s life and we all know this. How u can decide to get married with someone that u never tried to had sex with?
I don`t mean that sex is the most important thing but it is important!
We all know it...
How a marriage can lasts if there is no complicity for sex?
I hope no one gets me wrong!
There are various factors to this argument.
Yes, without a doubt, sexual chemistry is definately a necessity for a couple to have a healthy realtionship. Without ther would be no relationship at all.
However, even this is no garantee for a relationship to work. Living together is much more complicated then good sex.
Beyond the marriage or fixed relationship argument howeve, there are other situaions that one faces which go far beyond any form expalnation.
U walk in a room and you get a pair of eyes looking at yours. In that instance, at that moment in time, everything else stops being important. Pure sexual energy.
u explore, you experience and u part.
Two meteors that hit, bounce off each other, and keep on going.
Things like this happens too.
I can never believe that a good relationship between two people can survive unless both have had thier past, and thier experiences.
Unless of course one is still living in societies that are still absed on issues that were existant in western society during the middle ages, better referred to as The Dark Age.
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