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Actually, in a strange way, it's a positive way to look at it. If you don't hope for much, you won't be disappointed if things don't work out.


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I've been hurt sooooo many times that I don't even feel it any more, I just move on. My new motto is "Hope for nothing and expect less" That way I can't get hurt. Pretty sad huh?


Have most of you been hurt in previous relationships?: click here to read the entire thread »

The stars are all messed up and it's really F*$&!#g with the love thing.


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Kid Rock-Only God knows why


Song to describe your life...: click here to read the entire thread »

I'm looking for love, but the forums are a better place to actually analyze the basis of a relationship. If love comes along, that's a bonus

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CS people do not open their mail: click here to read the entire thread »

WOW!!!!! Thanks Hugs, I needed that reality check. That has to be the longest and best thread I've read so far. I'm glad I got out when I did. Thanks again

Dave


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Well, we were supposed to go out on an actual date tonight instead of sitting at home with the kids. cooking dinner, and watching a movie like we always end up doing. Before the night was over, everything fell apart and she couldn't go. The kids were with their father, and she only had to work this morning. Date canceled because the puppy she rescued wasn't eating. She invited me over, but I just wasn't interested. Tomorrow's another day, but not with her. Thanks for the threads, I needed some advice. For those of you that said there's 3 sides to the story, you're probably right. but If she ever would have taken the time to talk to me about her side, It might have worked out. I'm just glad that I'm not going to be her doormat anymore. I pity the next guy, he's in for a real treat.


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I have been dating Kim for a couple of months now, and am coming to the realization that I can't do anymore to continue the relationship like it is. I've mentioned her in other threads so those of you that have read them know the circumstances.
We have been dating but are not exclusive, I wanted more, but she doesn't right now. I give and give and give but never seem to get anything in return. last weekend, I took a couple of loads of her kids laundry home to wash them. (her dryer is broken) I found out later that she had went out on a date with another guy while I was doing the laundry. That part doesn't bother me so much as the not willing to commit part, but does play a factor in my decision on what to do. I have dated other women too.
I've tried and tried and really care for her, and she says that she cares for me. I just can't keep giving and not get anything in return. I'm not talking about sex here, that part is great. It's the little things like a phone call or text that says
"hi", or the "hey, come over later", or the back rub, or the walk. Everything comes from me. We are really good friends, and I'd like to keep being her friend, and I know that that is possible.
So my question is, When do I just give up and be friends?


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Grey Goose martini with a twist and 3 olives. The olives are dinner


DRINKS ON ME - WHAT YOU HAVING: click here to read the entire thread »

"Say mom, am I going to end up on connecting singles site like all the other lonely orangutans"


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I got an email last Thursday from a friend back in Wisconsin. He had just found out that he had terminal cancer and that he had had the cancer for about a year and a half. The Dr's gave him 6 months to live. When I asked him what he was going to do, he said "nothing, just live my life to the fullest".
Some people see it as giving up, but others, like me, see it as why prolong the agony. I would be the type that would spend all the time I could with the ones that I love, but let them know that it's not worth being sick and in pain for any longer than I would have to. I would travel and see as much of the world as I could and make my final destination a place where I want my life to end. Somewhere warm with lots of sun and sandy beaches.
I'm not afraid of dying, I've lived a full life from the day I was born, and when my time has come, it's come.
If it was only one day, I would go to bed with the woman I love and not get out. well maybe, if there's enough room on the floor


If You knew tomorrow was you last day to live, how diferrent would tomorrow be??: click here to read the entire thread »

I can't keep a secret if I tried, especially when it comes to dating. Honest and open is the only way.





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6:30 this morning


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If you can't find a stick of butter, then whipped cream in a can will have to do


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Hey, I have to hijack this thread and ask a question.



Bodleing, Is that an English Bull Terrier in your avitar?


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Good to hear from you again newtothearea, I thought you were lost in my past. And thanks for the advice, but there will always be the thought of the sexual side of the relationship that keeps us from being just friends. If we ever see each other, it will be there, at least on her part. I on the other hand have moved on to a new relationship that is going good. There's lots of excitement, as our motto is "never a dull moment" and believe me, there never is. I'm in love with her, and have been since the day we met, November 23, 2007. She compliments me, and I hope that I compliment her.
You have taught me a lot about relationships, and it has helped me to see that she is important to me. I give her my all, and am there for her anytime she is in need, even when she isn't.
I want to put Renee's and my relationship in the past and be friends, but I don't think it's possible. She won't let go of the past.
Thanks again, and hope to hear from you soon.

Dave


Never make a promise to....: click here to read the entire thread »

Did you ever think about sending him a text or an email that just says "Just wanted to say Hi"
It doesn't make it look like you're desperate, but more like you care. If you get a response, great! If not, Move on. It's that simple.


Pink Floyd Day: click here to read the entire thread »

I pretty much have learned to live with the cheating and lying at this point. I haven't met a woman yet that
doesn't lie in some way, It's just finding one that doesn't lie that much


people who cheat and lie................: click here to read the entire thread »

Hi my name's Dave and I'm a Vibrator


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You don't have to tell me


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