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My wife cheated on me after being married for 16 years. I looked at as a time to start over in a new life and move on. She's the one that has to live with what she did, not me. I did nothing wrong it sucks, but you're better off with out her. There are plenty of beautiful, smart, wonderful women out there that will accept you for who you are, and care for you even more than she did. Build a bridge, and get over it, and keep going. At least you weren't married yet. That is something that really hurts.


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In my situation, I don't think it's possible that she could really be friends with me. I asked her if she was willing to talk about everything, including other relationships. and she said no. To me, that wouldn't be a friendship. I, on the other hand would feel comfortable talking about anything. I think that we never were really friends, and that's why the relationship didn't work out in the first place


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be a friend with an ex-lover. I've been on this site for almost 9 months now, and met many interesting women. One that I met on another site became a friend and lover. It didn't work out, but we both made a promise, and that was that no matter what happened between us, that we would still be friends. Well' that didn't work either. I'm not sure that it can ever work, but my answer is that if someone wants you to make that promise, Don't!
I know this subject has come up before, but do you feel that ex-lovers can be friends after the relationship is over?


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I think I've seen this post somewhere, but anyways....on a boat trailer at a marina It was hot!!!


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In a thunderstorm under a restaurant on the beach last weekend


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Had a few chances to, but never did. the ex on the other hand, thats what ruined our marriage. cheating bitch!!! did I really go there? I remembered the Vows...Till deth do us part... She didn't


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If you really love someone, how long would you wait for them to make some kind of commitment towards a relationship?


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Thanks PowerPuff,
That really made me feel good. I just wish that she would see the good in everything sooner. It's driving me nuts. She took the letter I wrote her to work with her and read it to the lady that she cares for. The lady called it a masterpiece, and told her that she should hang on to me. I hope that she takes her advice. I'm not trying to steer her wrong. It sucks being in a relationship that the love is so one sided. I would do anything for her, and she knows it. She's just scared at this point because of everything that has happened in the past, and doesn't want it to happen again.


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right off the bat, I'm not willing to risk anything. call it gun shy (been shot in the heart more than once)
But give me a couple of dates to see if it's going to work, and I'm willing to risk everything


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A guy I hung around with when I was 20 or 21 walked into a bar, walked up to this girl and said "Hi my name is Joe Neville how do you like me so far" I saw it work, and saw him get slapped I didn't count which was more


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definitely not!!! Dudes don't do it for me


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I know I'm sick and deranged..........But who's keeping track


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Different


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Now that I look at it, I've never put myself first in any relationship. Is that a bad thing?


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Actually, I'm fourth on her list. She has three great kids that come before me, and I don't mind that.
When he left, She came to me. That's what counts. I knew that she would, I'm the only guy that has treated her like she deserves. She's not used to it, but she will get there. All the guys in her life have been jerks, and she deserves better. She's a smart girl that just needs someone to show her how much better life can be with the right person. It isn't going to be easy, and is definitely going to take time, but it's worth it to me. I keep telling her "You love me you just don't know it yet" She just gives m this great smile and doesn't say a word. We both know what she's thinking. She just won't say it. I don't blame her, after all, she's been through so much crap in her life. The good will shine through, it's just a matter of time for the wounds to heal. I'll be there as her best friend forever. She also says that the word "forever" isn't in her vocabulary anymore, but I'm going to show her that it's still there, she just needs to learn how to spell it right.


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Tattoos are hot on women, I don't think that I could date a woman without one well maybe if she was interested in getting one.
I have one, and want more, I'm not sure what or where, but I will get some more.


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It's funny how that situation just came up a week or two ago. The girl I was dating got a call from her ex boyfriend saying that he was coming back and wanted to get back together with her. We talked about it and we both decided that it was the best thing for her. She said she still loved him and needed to know if it would work. It sucked for me, but I knew what the outcome would be. He would screw her over again.and I'd be there to pick up the pieces. I found out tonight that he was heading back to the Midwest The prick wasn't even here a week and he completely ripped her heart out. It's going to take a lot of time for her to get over that, but I told her that I'd always be there for her, and I will.
I believe that a second chance is a good thing unless there is unfaithfulness involved. I'm so glad that the The a$$%@(e is leaving. I just wish that I could say "I told you so", but those words will never come out of my mouth. She really didn't deserve that. She's a good hearted person that was vulnerable to a guy that was controlling.
He actually found her phone last night and read my texts that I sent her, then called me and threatened me. He didn't know anything about me, where I live or what I drive. Kind of funny if you think about it. He's only 34, and has a lot of growing up to do (That will never happen)
Does this sound like a soap opera? So is the rest of my life, so why stop now


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It's great except for the not having anyone to hold, hug, kiss, spend time with................ oh well, maybe it isn't so great


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This goes back to the love and lust thread earlier. Maybe they're not really in love, and only in lust. When the lust wears off it's time for divorce. Did you ever stop to think that maybe they don't really know what love is.
I'd be really cautious, but I wouldn't give up on that person right away. In their search for love, you might be "the one" and in your search for love, they might be "the one". Is that something that you're willing to give up because they might not have found true love yet?


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I don't think that anyone is the same online as they are in person, but what is read/written online shapes the way you see that person from the inside. I think that you really get to know what a person is truly like on the inside before you get to meet them. That's the true "them".
Their picture gives you an idea of what they look like so when you meet them you tend to overlook the minor imperfections on the outside because you already know the person on the inside. it's the inside that counts anyways.



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