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maybe there isn't a way to draw the line, thats why there's so many divorces. maybe they were only infatuated with each other and not really in love. maybe if there was a way to define that line it would be easier to understand love. Maybe there's a lot of maybes in this post......maybe?


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I have the same philosophy, and really believe it to be true. When someone gets on your nerves, It's never a good thing for a relationship. Even trying to talk it out doesn't seem to work at that point. I just wish the other half would realize it too and feel the same.


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Whats up with this, should I have changed this to the top 25?


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are you guys serious? You have to give a goodnight kiss no matter what. It's usually a small kiss, absolutely no tounge unless she goes first


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ROFLMAOSTC


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I've done this on another forum, and it helps people see what others are like. List 50 things (I usually do 100) about yourself that you would like your Ideal mate to know about you. It can be anything.


1. I owned my own business for 13 years
2. I have a 3 year old English Bull Terrier
3. I have a 23 year old daughter
4. She's the greatest thing in my life
5. I have a 18 month old grandson
6. My funeral will have an open bar
7. I've owned 23 vehicles in my life
8. I'm a hopeful romantic
9. My goal in life is to retire completely by the age of 48
10. I love the beaches in Florida
11. I sleep naked
12. My favorite food is Italian
13. I despise Sushi
14. People that think they know everyone annoy me
15. I fall in love easily, but I'm a one woman man
16. I will treat a woman like a queen
17. I have a 30 ft sailboat
18. I need sex everyday
19. my favorite cologne is Acqua Di Gio
20. I can't stand women that can't make up their minds
21. I won crew member of the yea at my yacht club last year
22. I have 3 best friends
23. I would do anything for them even if it means jail time
24. I love to travel
25. I can fix anything
26. I have one sister
27. My ex wife cheated on me
28. She got dumped by the guy she cheated on me with within 2 months
29. Her family is and always will be my family
30. I'm really proud of my daughter.
31. I used to have everything, now I have nothing.
32. I'm happier with nothing
33. I drive a 1993 Ford Escort station wagon
34. I like to mow the lawn
35. I like Corona beer
36. My life is better now that I moved to Florida
37. I wear boxer briefs
38. I like to shop at Goodwill.
39. I own three pairs of shoes
40. I have personal possessions in 4 states
41. I WILL make $500,000 in the next 3 years
42. I love kids
43. I can't stand slow drivers
44. I have snowmobiled around Lake Superior
45. I'm addicted to singles sites
46. If I could go back and change anything in my life, I wouldn't
47. I like to take people sailing for their first time
48. My favorite color is Green
49. I love to cook for friends
50. Horses suck!

Your turn, Have fun!



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Infatuation is a big thing, I'll bet more people are infatuated with each other than people being in love with each other. But where is that line drawn? Maybe this should be it's own post.


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Of course there are, but it's a two way street. Are there any decent women out there? I've met two in the last month that don't even know how to say thank you when you pick them up on the side of the road with a flat tire. or feed their kids while they go shopping, or fix the dryer for them, or clean the garage for them, or walk the dogs for them....... If a guy helps a woman out, the least they can do is thank us. and it doesn't always have to be with sex, sometimes a "Thanks" will do. Sorry for the rant, didn't mean to dump.


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I've found a couple on this site and others, but no one worth keeping around yet most of the time everything starts out great, then when you really get to know them, you have to run like hell


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Hey, don't sweat it, there's lots of ways to enjoy being single. Start dating on the internet to get rid of the first date jitters and BS. then take your date somewhere nice. Cannovas in Neenah is a great place for a first date. there are lots o places to go, and things to do in your area. I was from Waupaca and moved here a couple of months ago. I met a lot of really great women online up there. The bar scene is lame and the same, but find another hobby that you like and you'll find someone that likes it too. keep coming to the forums, search the singles sites, and keep doing what is comfortable to you. It's actually pretty easy to be single, and fun.


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I don't know what it is about Italian women that turns me on, but I can't get away from them. I think Italian women are better lovers!


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On a boat trailer in a marina


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What about women that lie about their age? do you feel that that is a problem? It happens a lot on dating sites.


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I couldn't make it more than a month. But then I can't go more than a day or two with out it now I don't know how anyone could go for 7.5 years. That's beyond comprehension!!!


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Has anyone here ever had a successful relationship with someone after they broke up with them? Is it possible for a relationship to work a second or third time around?


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You said it before I got to it, but most of the good answers were from guys or from yourself. I'm not sure that women know how to be romantic. Sexy maybe, but not romantic


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My rule is to never get married again. at least on paper. commit to each other, create your own vows, do whatever it takes, but never do it in front of a judge, church official, or anyone else who will make it legal. A marriage certificate is a piece of paper that ruins lives.


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Been there before. If she wouldn't have left on her own, I'd have made sure that she was gone. But I did forgive her later. Only to move on with my life.


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hey hrt4lse,
I think that we get set in our ways and don't want to admit the reality of a relationship once it's reached a certain point. Sometimes it's easier to just keep going even though we aren't happy. We put on a smile and keep doing what we normally do. Then one day, things get to the point that neither partner wants to deal with it anymore. I think that my ex and I hit that point long before she walked out. Neither of us wanted to say it but we were both there. Her way of dealing with it was to run. The worst part is, that she is running from everything in her life from that point forward. and she will continue to run until she finds peace with herself.
I found peace with myself, but said that I could never forgive her for what she did. I was completely wrong about being able to forgive her, I have forgiven her, and told her that I don't love her, but I don't want to hate her either, and want to be friends. We now live about 1500 miles apart, so it would be easy. We finally talked a couple of weeks ago about everything, and it really seemed to help me to understand what happened between us. We could never have a second chance with each other, but we will each get a second chance with someone else., and so will you. this time, take your time and really see what that person is like before you jump in with everything. I did the same thing by getting engaged after 6 months. I won't do that again. I actually feel that marriage is the last thing that I want to do again. I feel that I can commit to someone for the rest of my life, but without the piece of paper that says we're married. there's something about that piece of paper that ruins a relationship.


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I was married for 16 years and had a really great marriage for the first 7. then things got rocky. We went to counseling, and it got better, but never was the same. At the fifteen year mark, we barely spoke to each other and only saw each other for about 30 minutes a day because our jobs were totally opposite each other. She finally cheated on me with her boss. I never gave up until the minute she said that she didn't want to try anymore and left. I don't think that most marriages last that long anymore. I've had friends that have given up in less than a year. Some longer, some shorter. I think that most people jump into marriage for the wrong reasons and way too soon. It takes time to really get to know someone, it doesn't happen in a couple of months. Try a couple of years, then see if you're ready for marriage.


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